really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 6:17 AM on Sunday, November 15th, 2009
Thanks everyone. I'm updated but let me know if I've missed anyone or anything.
Thanks again, you are all so appreciated!
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 7:06 AM on Thursday, November 26th, 2009
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 4:46 PM on Tuesday, December 22nd, 2009
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 6:31 PM on Tuesday, December 22nd, 2009
I've PM'd twisted_angel about read/notify quite sometime ago and have never heard back..... 
Anyone else do read/notify? 
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
million tears ( member #24416) posted at 7:47 PM on Wednesday, January 13th, 2010
2 year LTA-double betrayal, D-day 1-26-2009 and many months of TT.
Married 27 years. Together 29.
3 children 24, 21, 14
OW sex addict and romance addict according to MC. WH just your ordinary asshole.
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 6:54 AM on Thursday, January 14th, 2010
I know dreamie, I need to update. 
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
Ketta ( member #26744) posted at 3:52 AM on Friday, February 5th, 2010
I need to find out OW last name. I have her cell phone number. Can anyone help??
BS=Me (27)
WS=Him (25)
M 3 yrs, 2 kids
Multiple EA's
1 known PA??
D Day 9/13/09
Working on R, but still not sure.
Helen of Troy ( member #26419) posted at 11:08 PM on Friday, February 5th, 2010
I too need OW name. I have cell number. Tried two paid services with no luck.
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 11:37 PM on Friday, February 5th, 2010
Maybe give these members a PM:
mocospace - italianfireball
(it's like myspace for cell phones)
REVERSE PHONE DIRECTORY/ NATIONAL RECORDS REGISTRY - phoenix-rising
will sometimes give me name for cell phones
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 2:33 PM on Wednesday, February 10th, 2010
Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.
Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)
cantbelieve ( member #22028) posted at 3:52 PM on Wednesday, February 10th, 2010
I've got cell phone, home phone and address. Done all kinds of searches and can't find anything else. I'd like to find a other information about her and maybe even a picture. Any ideas?
Me: BS (61)
Him: WS (61)
LTA 4 years with co-worker
DS(30)
DD(26)
DD(23)
Married 32 years
D-day1 5/08
D-day2 11/08
Status: 6 yrs and wondering if I'll ever be truly happy again
seriouslydone ( member #27427) posted at 7:32 PM on Saturday, February 27th, 2010
I have fake AFF and Facebook accounts at my disposable and a real life classmates.com membership.
Ironically now that I have his passwords I can also use WH's sex site profiles on sexsearch.com and passion.com (this is a male profile obviously).
Can make phone calls within Canada from a safe, reputable and innocuous number. (Can also make one from a STD clinic if you want to watch someone sweat 
)
BS: me (41)
WS: dork (40)
1989 - one month affair 4 months before wedding
2008 - found profile to sex/dating site #1
2009 - found profile to sex/dating site #2
Buried it deep and left wondering what happened in between.
Confronted 2009
ao534q ( member #27593) posted at 6:57 AM on Monday, April 19th, 2010
I know Spanish and can help in translating it.
Not sure if it it's of any use to anyone, but I just want to make it known.
Hope it helps!
Peaches ( member #3770) posted at 8:17 PM on Saturday, May 29th, 2010
I can do drive bys, phone calls etc in the Toronto and GTA in Ontario, Canada.Phone takes great pictures and videos!
Belong to Facebook, Classmates and have a dummy Facebook account.
notasaint ( member #28465) posted at 2:24 PM on Sunday, May 30th, 2010
I have AFF account under a female if anyone needs that.
Have access to a system that can pretty much find anyone if you have their name/state. Gives address and phone numbers if they have a landline and birthdates.
[This message edited by trying2deal at 5:23 AM, June 3rd (Thursday)]
Me - BW 36
Him - FWH 38 SLA (newlywednupset)
M < 1 year
D-days 8/2009 and 4/2010 TT to 10/2010
3 OW over the course of 2 years, all older, one married.
* My husband was in an open relationship from day one, he just failed to tell ME this.*
Lighthouse Heart ( member #8899) posted at 6:34 PM on Saturday, July 3rd, 2010
really trying - please remove me from the AFF and ALT searches - the accounts are no longer accessible. I'm also no longer with the same company where I could do employment verifactions with a number from a reputable source.
Thanks! LH
I release the past so I am free to fight for my future unencumbered.
really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 7:36 PM on Saturday, July 3rd, 2010
thank you, those that have posted since I last updated. I'll update the week this weekend.
You all are the best!
And lighthouse, thanks for letting me know, I really appreciate that.
[This message edited by really trying at 1:36 PM, July 3rd (Saturday)]
Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08
The future's so bright - I got to wear shades
Plant Seeds of Kindness
Trying2Survive2 ( member #25758) posted at 12:50 PM on Wednesday, July 21st, 2010
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[This message edited by trying2deal at 1:58 PM, August 7th (Saturday)]
Faithful Wife ME 52
FWH 47
DDAY #1 1/11/09 EA Online ONLY (NC)
DDAY #2 6/2010 Admitted PA with the same PIG(12/08)
"Anything may be betrayed, anyone may be forgiven, but not those who lack the courage of their own greatness"
phatchance12 ( member #28280) posted at 4:09 AM on Sunday, August 8th, 2010
Can you please add me to your list of Services Offered. I have a MyLife account. It's just like classmates.com and used to be reunion.com
Whatever info someone puts up there about themselves, I can get. Pics, links to facebook, myspace, address, phone number, whatever.
Me: Faithful Wife.
Him: Who gives a shit, really.
Caught him on Feb 22nd, 2010.
Who the fuck does he think he is changing my life forever without asking me?
pappabear ( member #26301) posted at 5:03 AM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010
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[This message edited by trying2deal at 7:38 AM, September 11th (Saturday)]
BH-35
WW-35
D-Day 15 August 2009
2 kids 7 and 17
