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JustWow ( member #19636) posted at 7:18 PM on Friday, December 5th, 2008

I currently have a 1 month subscription to searchsystems . net (12/1)

BW - Reconciling

edited for typos (I always have to!)

posts: 3889   ·   registered: May. 22nd, 2008   ·   location: Midwest
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ObsesSing ( member #20462) posted at 8:01 AM on Sunday, December 7th, 2008

I have facebook, myspace, reunion.com (paid membership), net detective and can help retrieve deleted internet history. I am pretty good at surfing the internet and finding public information such as birth/death certificates and marriage licenses.

PM me and let me know if I can help!

BS-Me (34)
WH (34)
Married 12 years
One 5-year old son
1st D-Day fall of 2000
2nd D-Day 7/27/08

posts: 84   ·   registered: Jul. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
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tallguy ( member #21233) posted at 7:12 PM on Thursday, February 19th, 2009

Let's just say I have a contact who can help me find people that don't wanna be found. If you get my drift.

ME - (42) Long ago XBH(1W)
Her - (38) Decided her life would be better w/o me than with me. Good Riddens Bitch!

"I can be changed by what happens to me, but I refuse to be reduced by it."
~ Maya Angelou

posts: 344   ·   registered: Oct. 13th, 2008   ·   location: Indiana
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mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 7:34 PM on Thursday, February 19th, 2009

Let's just say I have a contact who can help me find people that don't wanna be found. If you get my drift.

Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)

posts: 13400   ·   registered: Jul. 6th, 2006   ·   location: The suburbs of hell
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unbreak_my_heart ( member #12145) posted at 12:45 AM on Monday, March 16th, 2009

BUMP

HAPPILY RECONCILED!

I ♥ my Husband!!!

posts: 2307   ·   registered: Sep. 26th, 2006   ·   location: Our happy place
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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 12:15 AM on Tuesday, March 17th, 2009

Updated today. Thanks everyone.

It appears that we currently don't have one person with a Reunion.com membership. I have PMed ObsesSing but she hasn't posted for a few weeks. I'll update when she gets back to me.

[This message edited by really trying at 6:15 PM, March 16th (Monday)]

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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Melissa21 ( member #23555) posted at 5:29 PM on Wednesday, May 6th, 2009

bump

DDay March 22, 2009.

posts: 151   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2009   ·   location: USA
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brohl5 ( member #13440) posted at 8:24 PM on Friday, May 22nd, 2009

bump

I'm not going to let this define me anymore. He's gone and I couldn't be happier.

You couldn't have told me in July and December of 2006, but there really is a life after this mess.

Breathe, just breathe.

posts: 5674   ·   registered: Jan. 25th, 2007   ·   location: Indiana
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scared&stronger ( member #15942) posted at 4:36 AM on Saturday, May 23rd, 2009

I am on facebook, ashleymadison,myspace and classmates.

[This message edited by scared&stronger at 10:38 PM, May 22nd (Friday)]

WS 45
BS 43

Met when we were 17 and 15. Together since 1983, married since 1985. Two kids, B21, G15.

d-day 4-3-07

Life has a way of making us get our panties in a wad.....I refuse to wear panties ever again.



posts: 4060   ·   registered: Aug. 27th, 2007
id 3866702
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HopelesslyAlone ( member #24471) posted at 11:09 AM on Wednesday, July 8th, 2009

Can anyone help me find out how/if my H has a blog or whatever they call it on World of Warcraft and can anyone find if H has alternative emails/social network/porn site accounts? PM me if you can help. It will be greatly appreciated.

Me-23
FWH-26
EA Discovered- 01/2008
In process of R

posts: 63   ·   registered: Jun. 18th, 2009   ·   location: Indiana
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sharonons ( member #24462) posted at 9:37 PM on Wednesday, July 8th, 2009

I need to know about world of warcarft too. I have used Spokeo.com to see email accts. But the person has to be listed as one of your contacts like in hotmail. Then it will search all new emails under that persons name. i do fing that the dates of when they are updated are incorrect. it's around 35.00 to pay for it. They will bill accts or paypal.

posts: 571   ·   registered: Jun. 17th, 2009   ·   location: NY
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mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 10:05 PM on Wednesday, July 8th, 2009

You guys should start a new thread asking about WOW. I don't know a thing about it, but I'm sure other members do, and your questions may be overlooked in this thread. Good luck!

eta: Oops! I noticed oldtimer97 is listed on this thread as a WOW member. Try pm-ing first. Sorry!

[This message edited by mom of 2 at 4:07 PM, July 8th (Wednesday)]

Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)

posts: 13400   ·   registered: Jul. 6th, 2006   ·   location: The suburbs of hell
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Troi ( member #24513) posted at 6:05 PM on Thursday, July 9th, 2009

So...I have a membership to emailfinder.com because I was doing all kinds of investigating before I found this website and was able to get into this forum.

This website allows me to see if an e-mail is valid among other things. I think there are free things online that allow you to do this...but what can I say, I was crazy obsessed and paid the fee.

But if anyone wants me to look for something I can try.

me BS-39
him WS-42
2004-2009 our relationship was a lie
D-Day 2/25/2009
R..is going great!

"But it's only on the brink that people find the will to change. Only at the precipice do we evolve." Professor Barnhardt to Klaatu.

posts: 715   ·   registered: Jun. 21st, 2009   ·   location: St. Louis, MO
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sharonons ( member #24462) posted at 10:16 PM on Friday, July 10th, 2009

was it accurate? The issue with spokeo is that it shows updates and the times are not correct. i know this because i updated my own email and it had said i did it a couple weeks ago. it was in April! If u still have the access, i'd like a couple things looked into if u dont mind. Can I pm U and u can tell me what u need?

Thanks,

posts: 571   ·   registered: Jun. 17th, 2009   ·   location: NY
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conti ( member #25216) posted at 3:51 PM on Saturday, August 29th, 2009

French to English/English to French translation. I'll be happy to help!

Me: BGF 35
Him: WBF 36
Together on and off 9 years. No kids.
I've been lied to too long, profoundly allergic to any type of betrayal, happily no longer comparing myself to Other Woman (as she turned out to be a real psycho).

posts: 98   ·   registered: Aug. 18th, 2009   ·   location: Canada
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D1rtyCh34t3r ( member #19405) posted at 9:35 PM on Wednesday, November 4th, 2009

I created an email address named yourspouseischeating@gmail.com that I am willing to use to notify any BS that needs to know what is going on. I have access to it and so does b3tr4y3d.

FWS since 4-28-08
BS b3tr4y3d
2 boys, 8 and 10
DDay1 - 4/28/08 - Caught in the act
DDay2 - 5/2/08 - OW2 revealed, extent of OW1 admitted
DDay3 - 8/1-2/08 - The whole sordid mess admitted
Fully committed to Reconciliation with my beautiful wife.

posts: 341   ·   registered: May. 5th, 2008   ·   location: Houston
id 4210676
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italianfireball ( member #25432) posted at 10:47 PM on Wednesday, November 4th, 2009

I have facebook, mocospace (it's like myspace for cell phones)& myspace(fake and real)crush or flush, I have access to plentoffish,and a contact that can use lexusnexus (pd search engine used by creditors)Also very good at net surfing and can retrieve some passwords. Just PM me

BS/(me) 39
WH/(alphadon1) 42
Dday 8/18/09
DD 18,13
DS 10
I have 2 adult sons from a previous M.

SAHM
together 15 married 11
‎"Not all scars show, not all wounds heal. Sometimes you can't always see the pain someone feels

posts: 311   ·   registered: Sep. 5th, 2009   ·   location: Jacksonville FL
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LostatSea4 ( member #21497) posted at 11:32 PM on Wednesday, November 4th, 2009

I am on Facebook and will be happy to make a phone call from the business I own.

R takes not one but two!
BS-me WS-him
Too many to talk about.

posts: 992   ·   registered: Nov. 3rd, 2008   ·   location: SE
id 4210908
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JustWow ( member #19636) posted at 7:30 PM on Friday, November 6th, 2009

my emailfinder.com subscription is expired.

BW - Reconciling

edited for typos (I always have to!)

posts: 3889   ·   registered: May. 22nd, 2008   ·   location: Midwest
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Buzz09 ( member #25971) posted at 6:01 PM on Friday, November 13th, 2009

I have a paid Spokeo account.

Spokeo is a search tool that enables a user to search 40 social networks by email address.

PM if you need help

Me BH 40
WW 41

posts: 648   ·   registered: Oct. 24th, 2009   ·   location: buzz09
id 4228818
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