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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 4:14 AM on Thursday, August 9th, 2012

It seems that phatchance12 who had a membership to MYLIFE hasn't posted for a year or so. Maybe PM them anyway? Sometimes members still check in.

I'll update the list this week, thanks to everyone who has offered services. You're great!

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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takingtime ( member #35661) posted at 11:42 PM on Thursday, August 9th, 2012

I wasn't able to PM phatchance.

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Crushed38 ( member #30644) posted at 7:30 PM on Wednesday, August 22nd, 2012

Is the list on the first page updated or is there a new list within this thread?

It's amazing that someone can break your heart and you still love them with all of the little pieces. -unknown

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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 5:03 PM on Thursday, October 18th, 2012

the list on the first page is the only list within this thread and it is updated, meaning I would use the last person listed on the service you want to use. When members ask to be added, they are put on at the end.

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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Hannelore ( member #34546) posted at 3:58 PM on Monday, October 29th, 2012

Hi there -

I have a paid spokeo account AND can intermittently get registration info from US license plate numbers. Also arrest/warrant info for a certain Southern State. PM me.

I hate that we have to do this.

Me BW - 40s
WH - 40s SA

posts: 162   ·   registered: Jan. 15th, 2012   ·   location: USA
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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 4:20 PM on Monday, October 29th, 2012

thanks hannelore!!!!

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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mom of 2 ( member #11214) posted at 4:46 PM on Tuesday, October 30th, 2012

Me: BW
Divorced after 23 years of M thanks to XH's truth trickle.
Status: Recovering and healing. It's going to be a long hard road.

Update November 2013: It only took seven years but I finally turned a corner. :)

posts: 13400   ·   registered: Jul. 6th, 2006   ·   location: The suburbs of hell
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SingleSadDad ( member #35474) posted at 8:58 PM on Monday, November 12th, 2012

If the list is still updated, I can help anyone with iPhone forensics. I have spent a ton of time with it and have ways of finding a ton of info. Let me know if I can help.

Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience -Mark Twain

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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 9:19 PM on Monday, November 12th, 2012

Thanks SSD! New services added!

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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Dead_nt_sleeping ( member #35263) posted at 5:36 PM on Tuesday, December 4th, 2012

I can help with data retrieval from Skype and browser history. I'm trying to write a DIY blog for the stuff I learned how to do when searching for evidence on my WW... Take a peek and see if it is helpful: www.betrayedspousesclub.blogspot.com.

BS - DDay: 2/7/12. R1: 1/14/12, R2: 2/7/12, R3: 2/29/12
Married 8, together 15, 2 amazing pre-school age kids

My amateur computer forensics blog: http://betrayedspousesclub.blogspot.com/

posts: 61   ·   registered: Apr. 7th, 2012   ·   location: DC
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dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 10:21 AM on Wednesday, December 19th, 2012

~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)

posts: 26209   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2005
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mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 3:00 PM on Friday, December 21st, 2012

I can answer any questions re: STDs & pregnancy.

[This message edited by mchercheur at 10:01 AM, December 21st (Friday)]

Me: BWHim: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011Married 31+ years/Together 32+ years/4 kids togetherOW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kidsTrying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2685   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
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SweetMisery ( member #38108) posted at 4:44 PM on Wednesday, February 6th, 2013

I have an account with Literotica.com. It is an erotic story and message board website. It's where WS met OW. If anyone needs something looked up there, I can help.

Me (BS) 29
Him (WS) 33
8 wasted years
DDay 1-14-2013 (One is all I need)
Confronted 2-8-2013
Filing for divorce

"When I've heard all I need to make a decision, I don't take a vote. I make a decision." Ronald Reagan

posts: 139   ·   registered: Jan. 13th, 2013
id 6208111
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sodamnlost ( member #37190) posted at 8:46 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013

I have access to a fully paid (so all features) swingers web site - profile is for a couple.

Me - BS original Dday 10-2012, separated June 2014, divorce Fall 2016


Grief, loss and pain taunt her - "you will never be the same." Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes, she rises and spreads her new wings as she brushes off the ashes an

posts: 772   ·   registered: Oct. 19th, 2012   ·   location: Out of the ashes
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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 8:55 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013

thanks SDL

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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fyou143 ( member #36618) posted at 9:39 PM on Wednesday, August 28th, 2013

bump

BS(me) - 26
WH - 34
DDay 6/24/12 at 2:04 p.m.
DDay 2 5/8/13-5/22/13 KIK App
2 Children ages 5 (boy) and 2 (girl)
I'm sorry is a statement I won't do it again is a promise how do i make it up to you is a responsibility

posts: 150   ·   registered: Aug. 27th, 2012   ·   location: Texas
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Lostandpregnant ( member #41433) posted at 7:37 PM on Saturday, November 30th, 2013

I'm a licensed PI in Canada, and will freely help if I can if any Canadians want advice.

You can also add me as a Second Life contact, I have a long time account there, and know the ins and outs of it.

He left me 18 weeks pregnant with twins for another.I am a Licensed Private Investigator..it even happens to us.

posts: 354   ·   registered: Nov. 23rd, 2013   ·   location: Canada
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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 1:35 AM on Sunday, December 1st, 2013

Wonderful LandP, thank you and list is updated

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 7:12 AM on Sunday, December 1st, 2013

Hi

I am in Australia and can make phone calls etc.

Eager to help any way I can.

Laura

Married 33yrs Me BW 59Yrs Him FWH 62yrs
OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted.
Dday May 28 2010.
OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years).
OW2 2002(8yrs PA).
OW3 2009(1Yr PA).
Others???? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck the goat"

posts: 2772   ·   registered: Jul. 8th, 2010   ·   location: Australia
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painfulpast ( member #41038) posted at 4:37 PM on Monday, December 9th, 2013

Hi - I have a Spokeo account and can do any look ups for members. I will also make phone calls for anyone that needs a call made. I'm in the New England area, so that is what will show on the caller ID.

DDay - 12/2010
Fully R'd - I love my husband

posts: 2249   ·   registered: Oct. 19th, 2013   ·   location: East Coast
id 6590637
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