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goodbye_virginia ( member #16321) posted at 5:13 AM on Saturday, January 4th, 2014

Hi.

I work for a certain hotel chain and can look up stays if given certain information. I don't really want to put the name of the chain here, but if you pm me I might be able to help.

Me- BW 38
Him - WH 46 alcoholic
We are attempting R but I still doubt it all sometimes
Divorced as of 09/2018

posts: 58   ·   registered: Sep. 24th, 2007   ·   location: Texas
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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 5:44 AM on Saturday, January 4th, 2014

thank you new members offering services, I've updated the list. :)

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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Fireball72 ( member #20152) posted at 2:37 PM on Saturday, January 4th, 2014

Hi, I wanted to update my skills for the list.

I am able to access/have skills in the following:

Facebook

IRC (Internet Relay Chat)

Maryland court records

DC court records (LIMITED ACCESS - I cannot and WILL NOT risk my job, but I can try to help within reason)

LinkedIn

MySpace (if it still exists)

OKCupid

Able to translate the following languages (if written): German, French, Luxembourgish, some Spanish (H is fluent)

Updated to add DC court records and LinkedIn.

Thanks.

BS (me):44 WS (him):42
Married 3.5 years, together 5.5
D-Day #1 - 2/10/16
D-Day #2 - 2/20/16
D-Day #3 - 5/27/16, different woman
Separated 6/3/16
H is asking for R. I don't know what I want.

posts: 722   ·   registered: Jul. 7th, 2008   ·   location: The Chesapeake Bay
id 6623632
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msmaggiemags ( member #7484) posted at 11:27 AM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014

I have no access to Verizon account. He is the account manager but I need this to check the no contact status. Any ideas? I need to be able to see who he's texting. Is there any spy ware that is for cell phones that have a.password lock? Or does anyone work for said company that can help? Please!

Me 42
Wh 36
Ds 11
Dd 7
Dday 6/19/2005, LTA and Oral pleasures, dday#2 Jan/2011 EA, dday #3 Nov/2013 pornographic pics of "friends"
I think this is finally R...

posts: 260   ·   registered: Jun. 28th, 2005   ·   location: Michigan
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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 6:09 PM on Sunday, January 5th, 2014

msmaggie, I don't see Verizon on the list, I would post your question as a separate topic to get help.

Fireball, thank you for the update.

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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inthedark14 ( member #41924) posted at 7:48 AM on Monday, January 13th, 2014

I don't know how or what someone wuld want me to do but I pay for an app on my phone spoofcard and I can make any phone # appear on the person I'm callings caller I'd, add me if this can in Any way help someone

WH: 39/BW:Me,32
Married 14 years in March, 2 Beautiful children 8 & 12
D-Day: Xmas Eve 2013-worst day of my life

"The most expensive thing in th world is TRUST, it takes years to earn and just a matter of seconds to lose"

posts: 102   ·   registered: Jan. 4th, 2014   ·   location: santa rosa ca
id 6637058
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faithful2theend ( member #17838) posted at 3:27 AM on Saturday, May 10th, 2014

I have an active Twitter account. I am willing to help if I can!

ME 42
WS 46
DD 15, DS 11, DD 7
Dday 12/30/06
divorced the Asshole 2015
currently a newlywed with the greatest man I have ever known! <3

posts: 123   ·   registered: Jan. 21st, 2008   ·   location: EAST US
id 6793135
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BlueinStLou ( member #44416) posted at 5:16 PM on Thursday, August 21st, 2014

I control both two male and one female profile on Ashley Madison. Happy to help with that in anyway.

I also am happy to make test phone calls. PM me. I am in Missouri.

Avocado - private texting app for couples - I am very familiar with how this works and have insight in how to find out if it is being used.

Iphone cheating - WH used iphone in about 100 ways to cheat, and I know them all (now).

Finally, I have sadly become well versed in how WS use game apps to cheat. Will assist with this also.

DDay1 3/26/2014
DDay2 4/15/2014
DDay 3 7/15/2014
DDay 4 8/15/2014
DDay 5-7 December 2014
DDay 8 - 9/10/15
DDay 9 - 10/15/16
Me BS 42
WH 41

1DD, 2 DS

posts: 475   ·   registered: Aug. 7th, 2014   ·   location: Midwest
id 6918479
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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 8:40 PM on Monday, September 22nd, 2014

List is updated, meaning that all members listed have been active within the last year.

BUT, if I've missed somebody's offer, please let me know.

THANK YOU!!!!

[This message edited by really trying at 9:33 PM, September 22nd (Monday)]

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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NoMoreMe ( member #47032) posted at 9:08 PM on Thursday, April 2nd, 2015

I wish I belonged to something or had a valuable service to offer.

What I do have is TIME, plenty of time AND the willingness to help in any way I could, even if it's as simple as making calls or sending "bogus" emails. I can carry on a full blown (phony) EA, I have so much time.

Anything I could ever do, please do not hesitate to ask.

DDay -february 2013

More betrayal (verbal and gory details involved) february 2015

Me: Betrayed Wife
February 2013

posts: 839   ·   registered: Mar. 4th, 2015   ·   location: LastChanceLand
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notjenkins ( member #46766) posted at 8:14 PM on Thursday, May 21st, 2015

I am willing to make phone calls if needed

[This message edited by notjenkins at 1:58 AM, June 22nd (Monday)]

BW 42
WH 45
We're doing great in r, but I'm guarded

posts: 93   ·   registered: Feb. 11th, 2015
id 7227744
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Trying2Survive1 ( member #40022) posted at 11:35 PM on Thursday, May 21st, 2015

I was very active in Second Life for several years. Although I'm no longer active on the site I can answer questions and provide limited investigation. Please add me to the list.

Madhatters, M 37yrs, many DDays
Both 60's, he now has stage 4 bladder cancer and in remission.
We're in solid R, there is hope!
Stop right there: I already don’t give a fuck ~ ty Greeneyesbluezy

posts: 436   ·   registered: Jul. 25th, 2013   ·   location: The Upside Down
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Policewife ( member #47231) posted at 4:07 PM on Wednesday, June 3rd, 2015

Can anybody find out who a burner phone belongs to? The married whore contacted my cheating ass husband from a burner phone after her husband found my husbands phone number on their bill. I have been in touch with the married whores husband and he says she no longer has the burner phone, just called it today finally a female answered not sure if it was the whore. Also is there anyway to find out if my cheating ass husband has a burner phone? I am aware there is usually no recourse to the purchaser but I am not sure.

If somebody can help that would be great. Please pm me and I will give the phone number.

Thx.

Devastated

BS - me 52
WH - 44
Married - August 2003 not sure I will make it to 12 years.
DDay October 2013 received a text on WH phone from the married whore while he was away in inpatient rehab. She wanted to hear about the amazing kiss they had.

posts: 267   ·   registered: Mar. 19th, 2015   ·   location: New jersey
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 really trying (original poster member #5311) posted at 3:07 AM on Thursday, June 4th, 2015

I would contact/PM someone who has a spooftel account on this list and see if who comes up when the run the number. It's a start.

k9lover1 has an account and is active on here. FYI

[This message edited by really trying at 9:10 PM, June 3rd (Wednesday)]

Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness

posts: 10425   ·   registered: Sep. 7th, 2004   ·   location: California
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jamie2015 ( member #48086) posted at 9:47 PM on Saturday, July 18th, 2015

Hi- can a male help me? I'm trying to set a "massage date" with someone on Craigslist whom my hisband frequented and spent over $10K on.. Well- there were many more but two in particular are of issue. I just want the address so I can see if there are children nearby. I've posted before about the nightmare in facing and what I've done. My WHs prostitutes are very wary - and with him, apparently they want to speak to him to divulge the address (one has moved of course). I guess I'm determined to see these locations... Any help is greatly appreciated. His supposed former "women" are all active on Craigslist and Backpage. They love my WH- he spent so much $$ on them I'm surprised he didn't list them as a dependent on our taxes. He could have. Thanks! And please message me too if belter. I'd like to do my drive by stuff ASAP.

"If I cut you off, chances are, you handed me the scissors."
BS(me) 51
WS 56 (sex, massage parlor, Craig's list hookups, affairs, and porn addict)
M: March 2005
D-Day: May 27 2015

posts: 107   ·   registered: Jun. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: Northeast USA
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beachgirl65 ( member #32913) posted at 7:25 PM on Tuesday, August 11th, 2015

I didn't see anything on the main page but does anyone have an account on Fetlife where they can look up a profile for me? TIA

BW (me) - 50ish WH (him) - 50ish
Married - 20+ years
1 daughter - grown
D-Day: Too many to actually remember
He - SA.. sissy sub CD - craiglist cruiser - idiot
Sometimes I just want to punch him in the face!

posts: 231   ·   registered: Jul. 27th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 7311380
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3eyeblind ( member #45921) posted at 4:05 PM on Saturday, September 26th, 2015

Can anyone run a spokeo search for me? Looking for OBS address but don't want WH to see the credit charge. Please pm me if you could help.

WH got the 7 year itch and a borderline personality disordered cw happened to be around to take care of him....aww.

posts: 157   ·   registered: Dec. 10th, 2014   ·   location: West Coast
id 7355946
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MarriedYoungCa ( member #46904) posted at 6:16 AM on Friday, October 23rd, 2015

Can anyone find internation cell phone numbers?

Both in our 30s
2 kids
3 ONS 2007
1 EA 2010
1 (week long) PA 2013
1 Almost PA (kissed at a park once) 2014
DDay October 2014

posts: 83   ·   registered: Feb. 21st, 2015
id 7379194
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Fireball72 ( member #20152) posted at 3:41 AM on Wednesday, November 25th, 2015

Updating skill set.

I no longer have access to DC Court Records other than what is publicly available. OKCupid account is also disabled.

I have a false profile on FetLife if anyone needs assistance with this. Also have some limited connection with Maryland SDAT (property) records.

The rest are still valid, though I don't know of anyone who uses MySpace anymore.

Please bear in mind that I check in rather infrequently, so if assistance is needed quickly, I may not be your best option. Still willing to help, though. Thanks!

[This message edited by Fireball72 at 9:43 PM, November 24th (Tuesday)]

BS (me):44 WS (him):42
Married 3.5 years, together 5.5
D-Day #1 - 2/10/16
D-Day #2 - 2/20/16
D-Day #3 - 5/27/16, different woman
Separated 6/3/16
H is asking for R. I don't know what I want.

posts: 722   ·   registered: Jul. 7th, 2008   ·   location: The Chesapeake Bay
id 7405088
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SimplyRed ( member #50332) posted at 7:44 PM on Monday, January 11th, 2016

Need: Is there anyone that could make a cell call to a number in Ms to see if male or female or has a way to find unlisteds. Also someone with female acct AM to contact a profile.

Have AM profile (female) and can look up profiles or contact.

Me~BW
Him-WH
Those that have nothing to hide, hide nothing.

posts: 403   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 7445844
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