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 PurpleHat (original poster new member #69563) posted at 11:24 PM on Saturday, July 10th, 2021

I've been lurking here for about 2.5 years now and just never felt like I could post anything. Though reading all the posts and comments has helped me tremendously. My question: is there a way to "search" the forums for a specific topic rather than going through page by page?


Me - BS, early 60's
Him - WH, early 60's
No kids DDay 1 12/2/2018
DDay 2 (about an A that happened 7 years ago) 4/3/2019 (I was told during MC session). In R.
In R

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DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 1:26 AM on Sunday, July 11th, 2021

Hi there,

No sorry no search function here.

General is a good place to just throw out a question if you have something specific on you mind.

Is there something that's currently bothering you?

What topics are you looking for? Maybe someone will pop in here and be able to direct you to a specific thread.

Me: BS 44 nowWH: 35 almost 36 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons.Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that.Full disclosure March 8th 2019 four AP's.

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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 4:56 PM on Sunday, July 11th, 2021

A search function could compromise anonymity.

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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sillyoldsod ( member #43649) posted at 5:07 PM on Sunday, July 11th, 2021

If there's a specific topic you're interested in researching you might try googling it by typing in 'survivinginfidelity' followed by the topic and see what it brings up.

Best wishes.

I've never met a sociopath I didn't like.

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ReadytoWorkonMe ( new member #79141) posted at 5:18 PM on Monday, July 19th, 2021

Yes, I agree PurpleHat - it would make it so much easier. Not sure how having that available would compromise privacy at all.

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Hippo16 ( member #52440) posted at 8:30 PM on Monday, July 19th, 2021

check your pm

Not Just Friends

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HFSSC ( member #33338) posted at 3:59 PM on Tuesday, July 20th, 2021

Yes, I agree PurpleHat - it would make it so much easier. Not sure how having that available would compromise privacy at all.

That’s because you’ve never been the object of a personality disordered asshat of a WS or AP who tracked you down to what felt like a safe place and then used your pain for entertainment or a weapon or both.

Me, 54
Him, 45 (JMSSC)
Married 24 years. Reconciled.

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