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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 6:30 PM on Sunday, May 13th, 2018

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26161   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8163984
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 7:43 PM on Saturday, May 26th, 2018

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26161   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8173302
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heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 6:57 PM on Friday, June 15th, 2018

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FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 8187365
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Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 9:55 PM on Sunday, July 1st, 2018

Bump.

"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF

posts: 2016   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 8198237
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 7:39 PM on Wednesday, July 4th, 2018

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
id 8200000
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Phoenix1 ( Moderator #38928) posted at 5:39 PM on Saturday, July 14th, 2018

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fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

posts: 8994   ·   registered: Apr. 9th, 2013   ·   location: Land of Indifference
id 8206597
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 6:51 PM on Tuesday, July 24th, 2018

ta-da

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26161   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8214047
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 7:16 PM on Monday, August 6th, 2018

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26161   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8223329
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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 5:03 PM on Thursday, August 23rd, 2018

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Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA
Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 4240   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
id 8234803
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heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 1:19 AM on Saturday, August 25th, 2018

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FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 8235682
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heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 6:09 PM on Thursday, September 13th, 2018

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FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 8247022
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 4:00 PM on Monday, September 24th, 2018

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26161   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8253006
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:21 PM on Wednesday, October 24th, 2018

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8354   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8272564
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twisted ( member #8873) posted at 6:38 PM on Thursday, October 25th, 2018

Thrive,

Thanks for keeping this for all of us. Probably the best post ever on this site, and I've been here awhile.

Required reading for all that find themselves here.

"Hey, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

posts: 4021   ·   registered: Nov. 18th, 2005   ·   location: Oklahoma
id 8273349
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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 1:40 AM on Saturday, November 3rd, 2018

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Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA
Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 4240   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
id 8277862
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heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 9:13 PM on Friday, December 21st, 2018

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FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

posts: 2540   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: California
id 8302776
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Edie ( member #26133) posted at 8:31 AM on Sunday, February 3rd, 2019

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Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
id 8323442
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 4:36 PM on Saturday, February 16th, 2019

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26161   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8330530
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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 3:35 PM on Tuesday, March 5th, 2019

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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

posts: 26161   ·   registered: Feb. 18th, 2011   ·   location: Illinois
id 8339639
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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 2:01 AM on Sunday, April 7th, 2019

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"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

posts: 8354   ·   registered: Nov. 2nd, 2015   ·   location: USA
id 8358202
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