Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 9:27 AM on Saturday, June 6th, 2015
I carried a copy of this post with me for almost a year. I hope it helps someone else as much as it di me.
Hang in there.
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Tearsoflove ( member #8271) posted at 9:19 PM on Tuesday, June 16th, 2015
"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson
Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 12:24 PM on Wednesday, June 17th, 2015
BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer
sarahstar ( member #43889) posted at 5:06 AM on Tuesday, June 23rd, 2015
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 10:27 AM on Saturday, July 4th, 2015
The weekend can be hard and holidays can be unbearable. I hope these posts help someone make it through another day.
Hang in there.
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 8:14 PM on Friday, August 14th, 2015
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 5:29 AM on Tuesday, August 25th, 2015
"Bitch please a good man can't be stolen." ROFLMAO - SBB: 7/2/2014
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 2:58 PM on Sunday, September 6th, 2015
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 8:19 AM on Sunday, October 4th, 2015
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:43 PM on Sunday, October 18th, 2015
bump 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:35 PM on Wednesday, October 28th, 2015
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Yooper ( member #49913) posted at 4:07 AM on Saturday, October 31st, 2015
Me: BS (58)
Him: (57)
Married 24.5 years. Divorced.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 10:13 AM on Saturday, November 7th, 2015
I'm doin' the mass bump again for all of those who just found us.
I'm sorry you are here but I am glad you found us. There are a lot of smart people around here who have been exactly where you are now, know that you are not alone. Read all you can, post as often as you need and take care of yourself.
Hang in there.
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 3:18 PM on Saturday, November 21st, 2015
Bumping for newbies.
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:48 PM on Saturday, December 5th, 2015
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 2:30 AM on Wednesday, December 9th, 2015
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
yearsofpain25 ( member #42012) posted at 10:37 PM on Thursday, December 10th, 2015
"I remind myself of this. I am a survivor. I have taken all this world has dished out and am still here. So there is no reason to be afraid. Whatever happens, I will survive. So now onto living. It is time for me to thrive." - DrJekyll
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:35 AM on Saturday, December 12th, 2015
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 4:05 PM on Friday, December 25th, 2015
Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 4:39 PM on Friday, January 1st, 2016
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
