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Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 11:20 PM on Sunday, November 24th, 2013

bumped for Horsegirl and Ruby.

take care everyone.

WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown

posts: 1254   ·   registered: Apr. 1st, 2012   ·   location: La La Land
id 6573341
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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 5:28 PM on Monday, November 25th, 2013

Bump for our Newbies today.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 20306   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
id 6574047
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 11:39 PM on Monday, December 2nd, 2013

posts: 12225   ·   registered: Mar. 3rd, 2008
id 6581870
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Jules1111 ( member #41463) posted at 3:48 PM on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2013

Read these and they really helped my mindset today.

posts: 132   ·   registered: Nov. 27th, 2013   ·   location: United States
id 6582576
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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 12:32 AM on Wednesday, December 4th, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

posts: 946   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6583252
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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:38 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013

Bump

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2106   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 6585198
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mchercheur ( member #37735) posted at 8:09 PM on Thursday, December 5th, 2013

BUMP

Me: BW; Him: WH --Had 10 mo. EA/ PA with COW; Dday 5/2011 Married 34 years/Together 35 years/4 kids together, and 1 grandbaby; OW 20 years younger than us/divorced no kids Trying to R; don't know what the final outcome will be

posts: 2687   ·   registered: Dec. 7th, 2012
id 6585752
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ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 7:33 PM on Sunday, December 8th, 2013

bump

posts: 12225   ·   registered: Mar. 3rd, 2008
id 6589588
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Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 3:38 AM on Sunday, December 15th, 2013

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom

posts: 29076   ·   registered: Feb. 28th, 2011   ·   location: California
id 6598259
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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 12:54 AM on Tuesday, December 17th, 2013

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

posts: 946   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6600369
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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 2:40 PM on Saturday, December 21st, 2013

bump

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

posts: 40250   ·   registered: Aug. 29th, 2011
id 6607105
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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 1:07 AM on Saturday, January 4th, 2014

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

posts: 946   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6623073
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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 8:14 PM on Tuesday, January 7th, 2014

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

posts: 946   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6628411
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cl131716 ( member #40699) posted at 7:49 PM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2014

Bump

Me BS 33 Him WS 37
Together 6 years, married almost 4 years
D-day: 07/23/13 EA with COW
D-day: 12/27/13 found out about a past kiss
D-day: 05/30/16 Saw first text message from new COW
D-day: 09-08-16 Dr. Fone confirmed EA

posts: 1243   ·   registered: Sep. 17th, 2013   ·   location: Oklahoma
id 6630334
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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 8:47 PM on Wednesday, January 8th, 2014

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

posts: 946   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6630449
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Lola88 ( member #41540) posted at 10:30 AM on Thursday, January 9th, 2014

So useful, especially during night terrors x

posts: 131   ·   registered: Dec. 5th, 2013   ·   location: UK
id 6631294
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ascian ( member #40304) posted at 7:29 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

bump

Me - BH 41
Her - FWW 38
D-Day: 8/13
Reconciled

posts: 363   ·   registered: Aug. 13th, 2013   ·   location: Midwest
id 6651399
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Blobette ( member #36519) posted at 6:59 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

Bump

BS (me): 51
WS: 52
Married: 27 yrs
Kids: 2
OW: Co-worker, 7 yr LTA
DD 8/1/2012, Working on R

posts: 1064   ·   registered: Aug. 17th, 2012
id 6662084
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Simple ( member #18814) posted at 11:23 PM on Wednesday, January 29th, 2014

bump

Love is a choice.

True love is harder to come by than soul mates. True love requires work.

Ignorance can be cured with knowledge. There is no cure for being an idiot.

-October 3, 2007
-February 18, 2022

posts: 946   ·   registered: Mar. 25th, 2008
id 6662547
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brkn_heartd ( member #30396) posted at 5:47 PM on Sunday, February 2nd, 2014

Bump

Me-57 BS
Him 65-WS
Married 38 yrs, together 40
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

posts: 2133   ·   registered: Dec. 14th, 2010   ·   location: Northwesten US
id 6667916
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