Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 11:01 PM on Thursday, January 15th, 2026
What do you do/think/react after your cheating partner says "I wasted the best years of my life with you"?
I would leave. Immediately. End of story. No further questions asked. I'd pack my bags and get the fuck out. It would not matter one fucking iota if the statement was true or not. There's no going back from something like that.
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
5Decades ( member #83504) posted at 11:16 PM on Thursday, January 15th, 2026
If my husband said that to me, my response would be very quiet and purposeful.
I would walk away, begin packing without speaking.
I would leave.
And I would send him one last message: "All future contact will be via my attorney. I will never waste another moment."
5Decades BW 69 WH 74 Married since 1975