jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 4:19 AM on Saturday, August 31st, 2013
Bumping for a member. 
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 6:56 PM on Wednesday, September 18th, 2013
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 1:51 PM on Friday, September 27th, 2013
FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 3:22 PM on Tuesday, October 1st, 2013
Bump again 
FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
bookjunkie ( member #39033) posted at 11:11 PM on Friday, October 4th, 2013
WW 43 (me)
BH 45
Married 24 yrs
3 kids
DDay 2/10/13 Confessed
Reconciling
SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 11:19 PM on Friday, October 18th, 2013
Bump
FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
SurprisinglyOkay ( member #36684) posted at 1:15 AM on Friday, November 8th, 2013
bumpity bump for lostinca
FWS me 38 (recovering addict)
BS him 41 AFrayedKnot
Together 10 years
2 children
"Your secrets keep you sick"
Maia (original poster member #8268) posted at 9:14 PM on Friday, November 8th, 2013
Every once in a while I login to see how you guys are.
And your replies make me really grateful.
peace.
The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.Psalms 34:18
bookjunkie ( member #39033) posted at 2:59 PM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013
Maia,
I just want to say "Thank You" for posting this. I have read it many times and today something clicked for me. It was this:
sow a thought reap an action. sow an action reap a habit. sow a habit reap a character. sow a character, reap a destiny.
I realized I was having alot of thoughts but no actions and I'd become stuck. So I got up off my butt and started to move.
Thanks again for this post. I don't know how I would be getting thru without this site.
WW 43 (me)
BH 45
Married 24 yrs
3 kids
DDay 2/10/13 Confessed
Reconciling
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 1:59 PM on Monday, November 25th, 2013
finallyfree2011 ( member #37998) posted at 5:23 PM on Monday, November 25th, 2013
Finally saw this - bumping to read later
Me - WS
H - BH
D day - July 2011 after a 4 year relationship with OM
Reconciled and renewed our vows on our 22 Anniversary in June 2012
hallelujah ( member #32283) posted at 6:10 PM on Tuesday, December 10th, 2013
knightsbff ( member #36853) posted at 9:34 PM on Sunday, December 22nd, 2013
Bump for Lillibug
fWW 40s, BH 40s
D-day 27 Aug 2012. Kids 25, 17, 13. 2 dogs.
I edit often to fix stuff ☺️
Profoundly grateful Every. Single. Day. that I am blessed with an H with strength, integrity, and compassion, and that he decided to try.
Unagie ( member #37091) posted at 5:08 AM on Monday, December 23rd, 2013
hallelujah ( member #32283) posted at 5:05 PM on Tuesday, December 24th, 2013
Clarrissa ( member #21886) posted at 1:18 PM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
BH Cee64D - 50
FWW (me) - 51
All affairs are variations on a theme. No one has 'Beethoven's 5th' to everyone else's 'Chopsticks'.
LovesLaboursLost ( member #37272) posted at 5:48 PM on Thursday, January 9th, 2014
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 3:34 PM on Monday, January 13th, 2014
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
Aubrie ( member #33886) posted at 11:26 PM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - J. Wayne
JustDesserts ( member #39665) posted at 2:04 AM on Monday, February 3rd, 2014
2 year EA/PA. DDay 3/12. Broke NC 6/13 w/one stupid 5 line e-mail (which brought me to SI). Me: WH, 51. Her: BW, 50. Married 20 years. Two kids. Dog. Reconciling...together.
