SuspiciousWife ( member #18108) posted at 4:49 AM on Saturday, June 18th, 2011
Me - BW, 44
Him - FWH, 44
OW - former co-worker
3 great kids
DDay - April 25, 2008 - mostly EA with one make-out session
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 4:18 PM on Wednesday, June 22nd, 2011
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 7:06 AM on Thursday, June 23rd, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 9:55 AM on Wednesday, June 29th, 2011
Bumping for a newbie. 
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
Rise_Above ( member #23674) posted at 10:05 PM on Thursday, June 30th, 2011
You can live the way you believe this is your opportunity to let your life be one that lights the way~F.Battistelli
*****
God's hand was an avocado branch
september7 ( member #29929) posted at 1:27 AM on Saturday, July 2nd, 2011
bump, bump, bump!!
Reading it over and over!!
D-Day September 7, 2010 NC ended December 22, 2010 and I kicked him OUT! WH dumps OW July 2, 2011 and wants to R! Now he has been living with me and on best behavior since then!
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 11:12 PM on Saturday, July 2nd, 2011
socold ( member #17400) posted at 1:28 AM on Wednesday, July 13th, 2011
(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 4:29 AM on Tuesday, July 19th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 2:22 AM on Sunday, July 24th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 11:17 PM on Wednesday, July 27th, 2011
socold ( member #17400) posted at 12:17 AM on Wednesday, August 3rd, 2011
bumping in the shadow of my SI hero.
(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010
MrsSprky99 ( member #32895) posted at 1:54 AM on Wednesday, August 3rd, 2011
Best reading yet....thank you so much to all that played a part in sharing this!!!
BW (me) - 47
WH (him) - 53
Married - 14 years
3 Children - 25, 24 from first relationship & 10 y/o with WH
D-Day: June 11, 2011
UnsettledOne ( member #32952) posted at 8:31 PM on Thursday, August 4th, 2011
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 1:51 PM on Friday, August 5th, 2011
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 12:32 AM on Wednesday, August 10th, 2011
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 2:25 AM on Sunday, August 14th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:58 PM on Sunday, August 14th, 2011
BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Llanden ( member #10402) posted at 1:21 AM on Tuesday, August 16th, 2011
"If you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best."
BS 41
DD's 20, 14 and 11
sammie ( member #7785) posted at 12:36 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2011
If someone loves you, it should feel like they love you.
Never give more of yourself than you are getting back.
"The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places." ~Ernest Hemingway
