Sumrlady ( member #4355) posted at 10:40 PM on Thursday, December 28th, 2017
I was so sorry to hear about this. MH, you are in my thoughts. Thank you both for all you have done, for so many hurting people.
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover-Mark Twain
Cornpop30 ( member #35248) posted at 11:48 AM on Friday, December 29th, 2017
It has been a very long time since I had logged on. I’ve been feeling a little off lately and couldn’t sleep so I came on to read and came across this post.
MH, my deepest condolences. I wish I made my way back sooner. I was not very active on the site, but DS helped me in the beginning and that is something that I am eternally grateful for. What a wonderful life and a beautiful soul. I have been in tears reading this thread and all of the words of love and support.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 8:27 PM on Friday, March 23rd, 2018
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
burninghouse ( member #63308) posted at 8:49 AM on Thursday, April 19th, 2018
Prayers and healing vibes to you. You can and WILL beat this!
BW (me)
WH (him)
D-day 3/2018
Divorcing
Reminding myself often, "The last of the human freedoms: to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” Viktor Frankl
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:08 AM on Friday, July 27th, 2018
I miss you, my friend. You are always in my heart. 💕😥
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 3:31 AM on Sunday, July 29th, 2018
(((Jo))) Me too! She’s been around lately, hasn’t she?
((((Dear DS))) thank you for looking out yesterday. Love and miss you.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 12:26 AM on Monday, December 24th, 2018
(((DS in Heaven)))
I can’t believe it’s already another year that you’re gone.
Two years went by in the blink of an eye.
I think of you every day, my sister, but especially in these days surrounding the holidays.
I miss you more than I can explain.
Merry Christmas with the angels, sweet DS.
[This message edited by SI Staff at 5:20 AM, January 6th (Sunday)]
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
unsure73 ( member #65970) posted at 3:12 PM on Friday, December 28th, 2018
Thank you for this site!!! heaven is a better place with you there. I'll get to meet you soon.
doing so much better I cant even say....thanks to these smart folks here
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 6:08 AM on Thursday, January 10th, 2019
Thinking about you today DS. So grateful for SI and your role in making it such a wonderful place of healing. 
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 7:11 PM on Friday, March 8th, 2019
hi DS, I was watching Dr. Phil and it made me think of you. You are such a treasure and I miss you on this site. Love to you and MH. Your legacy here is invaluable.
((((((((((DS & MH))))))))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 12:13 PM on Saturday, March 23rd, 2019
DS was on my mind this morning, and now I know why.
(((DS & MH)))
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 12:32 PM on Saturday, March 23rd, 2019
And me, for a few days, so lovely to see her smiling
😊
Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 1:29 PM on Saturday, March 23rd, 2019
Hers is the kind of spirit that lives forever, even thought she may no longer physically be here with us.
RIP, DS. You remain a treasure.
Cat
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 4:22 PM on Saturday, March 23rd, 2019
Happy birthday, sweetie! Really, really hoped we'd get to spend part of our double-digit milestone birthdays together this year, like we did with the big 5-0. You sure did know how to throw one hell of a party! Miss you!
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 8:32 PM on Saturday, March 23rd, 2019
Checking in today to send my loving thoughts up to the heavens and wish my dear, sweet sister friend a Happy Heavenly Birthday.
Your name comes up at least a few times a week, whether it’s sharing a memory with LD, or telling a story to a friend who didn’t know you, or just in sharing a lesson learned from you with someone...It always starts with “My dear friend J, who we lost much too soon two years ago, taught me....”
I will never look at Hello Kitty, a bottle of Patron, or a certain belt that I have hanging in my closet, without smiling...
I miss you every day. You are always a part of me. Life isn’t fair, and I will never stop feeling you in my heart, a part of it tucked away with love and gratitude, so much appreciation for the light and love you brought into mine and LD’s lives.
I miss you, my cherished friend.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 10:28 PM on Saturday, March 23rd, 2019
((((DS & MH))))
Happy birthday, and sadly taken away from us much too soon.
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 12:23 AM on Saturday, March 30th, 2019
I miss you. You are in my thoughts and my heart, my friend.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 11:45 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2019
I miss you very much. Your bright light still shines so strong....encouraging, supporting, guiding, loving, and giving strength even when we don’t think we have any left at all. I love you, my friend.
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 12:04 AM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2019
(((DS)))
Thank you for your visit today on my drive home from work.
Miss you, sweet angel friend.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 10:42 PM on Wednesday, December 11th, 2019
Thinking of you during the holiday season ((((DS & MH))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
