Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 2:40 AM on Sunday, January 22nd, 2017
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
PricklePatch ( member #34041) posted at 5:03 AM on Sunday, January 22nd, 2017
JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 4:19 AM on Monday, January 23rd, 2017
MH, the service and the video was beautiful.
What page is the video on, I can't see it.
MH, sounds like you did her proud.
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 10:00 AM on Monday, January 23rd, 2017
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=861IaMpK3YU
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 4:10 AM on Tuesday, January 24th, 2017
I cut/paste the link above and got a Neil Diamond concert!!!!
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 1:02 PM on Tuesday, January 24th, 2017
Janet, the video was shown at the service. It's not posted on here.
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
lostfather ( member #7818) posted at 1:25 AM on Wednesday, January 25th, 2017
I'm so sorry. Prayers to you & yours.
BS(me) 48, WS(wife) 45
M 20/together 22
M 8-01-98, D-day 8-02-05, 2nd D-day
1-4-17, truth 4-26-2017
Son 17 Daughter 15
I'd rather have a bottle in front of me than a frontal lobotomy!
JanetS ( member #2766) posted at 5:57 AM on Wednesday, January 25th, 2017
Thank u lieshurt
I am sure it was a beautiful service for a much appreciated lady
weeping willow ( member #22800) posted at 7:27 PM on Wednesday, January 25th, 2017
I haven't been on SI for quite some time. 
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your dear DS, MH. (((((MH and everyone here who holds DS close to their hearts.))))
BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 40 years
MissesJai ( member #24849) posted at 7:45 PM on Wednesday, January 25th, 2017
44
Happily divorcing..
My Life is Mine!!!!
#BlackLivesMatter
Don't settle for no fuck shit....
MangledHeart ( Webmaster) posted at 3:10 PM on Wednesday, February 1st, 2017
Thank you everyone. This thread will not be archived. I'm sticking it to the top. 
Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow; it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 3:19 PM on Wednesday, February 1st, 2017
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
nme1 ( member #44360) posted at 2:01 AM on Thursday, February 2nd, 2017
Front and centre stage, right where it belongs.
Me: BS
Him: WS
M 16 yrs 2 x DS
D-Day 6th March 2014
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 9:51 AM on Thursday, February 2nd, 2017
I'm so glad about this MH, in fact I was thinking of asking you to do just that but I didn't want to bother you when you have so much going on just now.
I *LOVE* seeing DS's name on the top thread when I come into this forum - THANKS!!!
((((MH))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
trying to smile ( member #9683) posted at 11:19 AM on Thursday, February 2nd, 2017
Thank you for that, perfect.
Would it be silly to ask for the Christmas Theme to stay for a full 12 months as a tribute and a nod to her joy and love for the season?
tts
Good Women.
May we know them,
May we be them,
May we raise them.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
"so when he finally showed his true colours they proved to be a startling shade of turd".
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 12:59 PM on Thursday, February 2nd, 2017
MH this makes me smile. Thank you
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 8:52 AM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
Oh good. Was very vexed about the risk of it disappearing.
treading water ( member #9139) posted at 11:10 AM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
Very late learning of this- So very sorry MH- you and DS have provided immeasurable support for those of us when we needed it, I sincerely hope you know how many prayers are coming your way. What a sad loss, again, so very sorry 
"Won't be fooled again"
Onward and Upward!!!
Life IS Good!!
amitheow ( member #4691) posted at 1:06 PM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
MH
I lost my husband in July. Unexpected heart attack. I live in Houston and am here if you need anything. I met DS one time at a burger joint close to your house to pick up some Mary Kay!
Please let me know if you need anything.
Ami
Old Timer, Just here to help
My screen name is: Am I The Ow? - Not Ami the OW.
Because in my situation I didn't know if I was the OW at first or if I was being cheated on. Found I was being cheated on.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 1:43 PM on Friday, February 3rd, 2017
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
