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Reconciliation :
Staying - forgiving myself and believing I am strong

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 DutchMom (original poster member #23522) posted at 1:51 AM on Friday, November 7th, 2025

I have struggled recently with feeling weak for choosing to stay (twice). I wrote about it, then I asked AI to polish it up and add music. This is helping me feel strong. I am hoping it helps someone else -- well I can't post the URL of the song with the music, but here are the lyrics The Woman Who Stayed

(Verse 1)
I’ve walked through the wreckage, the ashes and rain,
Holding the echoes of love and of pain.
I swore I would leave if the promise was betrayed,
But hearts don’t move easy, they bend, they stay.

(Pre-Chorus)
I tried to fix what was broken in two,
Believed in the vows, believed in the truth.
And though the world said, "You should’ve walked away,"
I found a different kind of brave.

(Chorus)
’Cause it’s strong to stay when your soul’s torn apart,
It’s courage to heal with a trembling heart.
Forgiving myself for the roads that I paved,
I’m not weak for the love that I gave.
I’m learning to see through the tears and the shade,
There’s power in being the woman who stayed.

(Verse 2)
I built walls of grace where the trust used to be,
Tried to find peace with the ghost next to me.
I wasn’t naïve, I was fighting for more,
For the life we had built, for the "us" before.

(Pre-Chorus)
And maybe the mirror’s been hard to face,
But I’m learning that strength wears a softer face.
Forgiveness is not a surrender, it’s flame—
The light that whispers my name.

(Chorus)
’Cause it’s strong to stay when your soul’s torn apart,
It’s courage to heal with a trembling heart.
Forgiving myself for the roads that I paved,
I’m not weak for the love that I gave.
I’m learning to see through the tears and the shade,
There’s power in being the woman who stayed.

(Bridge)
Someday my daughters will see what I mean,
That love isn’t simple or always serene.
It takes guts to believe when the story repeats,
To hold out your heart when it still bleeds.

(Final Chorus)
It’s strength to stay, to face what remains,
It’s courage to hope through the thunder and rain.
Forgiving myself, I’m not afraid—
Of the woman I was, or the choices I made.
Love doesn’t fade, it just learns to be brave,
And I’m proud to be the woman who stayed.

(Outro)
So here’s to the hearts that refuse to decay,
To the ones who keep loving anyway.
Not broken, not weak, not ashamed—
Just human, just strong…
The woman who stayed.

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BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 4:06 AM on Friday, November 7th, 2025

Nothing weak about staying. There are no easy paths out of infidelity.

And I love your creative outlet- great stuff!

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

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Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 1:10 PM on Friday, November 7th, 2025

Great lyrics! I'd like to hear the music and your voice.

You can't post a URL. However, I'm pretty sure SI guidelines do allow you to publish the name of the song and where to find it.

Start a thread with the title: "Mod please" and they'll PM you.

Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown

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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:57 PM on Friday, November 7th, 2025

No need. Wearing my mod hat, I think naming the song is well within the guidelines. Another mod may object, and the mods would discuss it, but I think it's OK.

Besides, if you posted 'mod, please' at the right time, I'd be the one who responded. smile

As long as the music isn't plagiarized, your song could become a hit. Just sayin'....

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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 DutchMom (original poster member #23522) posted at 10:50 PM on Friday, November 7th, 2025

You can find the song on the platform Suno (web based or app)
Search Mom2Three under users and you should find it. It isn’t coming up by title for me.

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 DutchMom (original poster member #23522) posted at 10:54 PM on Friday, November 7th, 2025

Also to be clear it isn’t be singing! It’s AI. I wrote something and asked AI to polish and bit music to my thoughts.

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Theevent ( member #85259) posted at 4:52 AM on Saturday, November 8th, 2025

Beautiful. I felt that.

Thank you for sharing.

Me - BH D-day 4/2024 age 42
Her - WW EA 1/2023, PA 7/2023 - 6/2024, age 40
Married 18 years,
2 teenage children,
Trying to reconcile

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