Eric1964 ( new member #84524) posted at 6:51 PM on Tuesday, October 1st, 2024
an opportunity to find my bitch boots and put myself first, eventually.
I particularly liked that part! Whatever the male equivalent is, that's what I need.
You seem to be where I'd like to be, though it's been fourteen years in my case, and I'm really only starting the process now.
DDay was in January and June 2010 and since then we've buried it. I'm here because it won't stay buried.
Eric1964 ( new member #84524) posted at 7:35 PM on Tuesday, October 1st, 2024
I've had a further read of your original post and one or two replies.
I've just referred myself to Relate (UK). I don't know if their l this is the right place, but it's a start. I bitterly regret not doing this at the time of the exceptionally unpleasant revelations, but I was a complete novice at being a BS! I was thinking earlier today that it was like putting an intern in charge of a major negotiation.
Waiting so long, I've made things more difficult, but we are where we are. Although I'm certain my wife doesn't understand the damage done by her affair(s), I'm also certain that she loves me deeply. Haven't got time to go into how I know that.
Anyway, thanks for your thread.
DDay was in January and June 2010 and since then we've buried it. I'm here because it won't stay buried.
