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HFSSC (original poster member #33338) posted at 4:32 AM on Monday, May 13th, 2024
Y’all.
For the back story here, see my thread about being an idiot.
I am now legit spooked by this nut and I’m not sure what to do.
H——, I didn’t contact you for an apology. I quit my job cuz of you. I needed that job!!! You only felt bad cuz B—— came to you and said something… M—- (Administrator) didn’t believe me and I didn’t deserve what you did to me, in front of people that I didn’t even know!! That was my personal private medical information…. I will be taking you to magistrate court for this seeking the highest possible penalty, $7500, unless you are willing to come to an agreement with me. You have totally fucked up my life but I’m sure you still have your job.
I received that this morning.
I responded
Again, I am sorry. I did not share any PHI. I realize I made you uncomfortable (yes, because B—— informed me). I’m not psychic so I wouldn’t have known if someone didn’t tell me. You made a decision that you’re now unhappy with. That’s on you. My attorney is P——N——- and you may contact him for any further communication.
Blocked her number.
An hour later I get this from another number.
Yea you did, to me it’s my PHI… I’m not interested in your lawyer…. B——- now knows who my gynecologist was and that is MY private health information…. You wouldn’t like it if someone did it to you, and u violated my rights…. SO, I’ll see you in court then
What. The. Actual. Fuck.
I never said anything about the Dr’s specialty. In fact his son has the same name and has been a dentist here for 25 years. Maybe I was talking about him. She’s the one blowing it all up and revealing the "private info".
Gonna call my lawyer in the morning to see how much he’d charge for a cease and desist letter. 
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 6:08 AM on Monday, May 13th, 2024
What a nut job. She’s obviously the kind that will sue for anything. I hope your lawyer can put an end to it quickly.
I didn’t comment on your earlier thread, but I felt that you made an honest error and was not idiotic at all. You are a good person, and you don’t deserve a wacko trying to create drama, where it doesn’t need to be.
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 1:00 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2024
"I will be taking you to magistrate court for this seeking the highest possible penalty, $7500, unless you are willing to come to an agreement with me."
Sounds like she is trying to extort money from you.
A nut job for sure!!
"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."
D-day April 2010
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:08 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2024
Silence from you from this point. In your smaller community she is probably known by many with this response.
Definitely reach out to the attorney. I would also suggest you write down. What happened how it went down, and any other employees present during the conversation if you have an incident report system have them enter it there.
Clearly this chick is nucking futs. You don't have anything to be concerned about. That was NOT a HIPAA violation and she has to have funds to pursue this. I doubt she does.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 1:54 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2024
You said you asked if Dr. Name delivered her baby. Gives away type of doctor, but I don't see how asking this question is a violation. She can confirm or deny based on her answer. None of it makes sense to me. She needs the job, but quit because you asked her a question??
Guess you'll be seeing her in court, if it even goes that far. Sorry this has happened.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
SacredSoul33 ( member #83038) posted at 3:06 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2024
I will be taking you to magistrate court for this seeking the highest possible penalty, $7500, unless you are willing to come to an agreement with me.
I’m not interested in your lawyer
That's extortion. I hope your lawyer eats her for lunch.
Also, you saved everyone at your company from having to deal with this crazy on a daily basis. You deserve a medal!
Gasping for air while volunteering to give others CPR is not heroic.
Your nervous system will always choose a familiar hell over an unfamiliar heaven.
HFSSC (original poster member #33338) posted at 5:01 PM on Monday, May 13th, 2024
You said you asked if Dr. Name delivered her baby
Actually, I didn't even ask this. I just asked if she'd ever seen Dr. So and So. So legit could have been referencing her dentist.
I've blocked her on every platform and guess we'll just see. Lord.
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 1:41 PM on Tuesday, May 14th, 2024
That's good. I still don't think it was a violation by simply asking a question.
Hope she moves on to something else sooner than later!!
What did your lawyer say about it?
Failure is success if we learn from it.
HFSSC (original poster member #33338) posted at 1:41 AM on Wednesday, May 15th, 2024
My attorney told me to make sure my employer was aware and to let him know if she tries again. My boss told me to keep blocking her. It’s been quiet since Sunday so who knows. I almost hope she has me served. Be a diversion anyway. 
Me, 56
Him, 48 (JMSSC)
Married 26 years. Reconciled.
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 12:33 AM on Thursday, May 16th, 2024
Yikes. You did nothing wrong. It was an honest mistake. She sounds like she’s bat shit.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
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