Wife leaves this week out of the country for a few weeks.
I'm not really concerned about a potential AP travelling with her, since she will be with family primarilly, and to put it not too vaguely, will be in a country currently at war.
I will not be travelling with her, since I have some work obligations myself these next few weeks.
As an update. There has been only a few suspicious events.
She has no itinerary deviations these last few weeks. She's rarely not been where I was expecting.. Work, Shopping, Gym, Home.
She had one "late night at work".... but I saw she wasn't at work.... she was shopping. And she always "accidentally" uses my credit card to pay for things so I knew she'd made a purchase, then called me to tell me she just got off work and was coming home.
Our relationship otherwise seems to have improved in almost every way. I think she's very pleased with the changes I've been making for myself. And I think a large part of this is how much more fit I've become. I've lost a ton of weight, and frankly, look better than I have since probably when we first met. The funny thing is, it's also been impossible to not notice how other women are treating me now as well. This has all led to some drastic increases in my self confidence and the way in which I carry myself--- which in turns leads to more attraction from, well, everyone.
Snapchat.... this is a problem. It's a big problem.
So first she told me she doesn't have snapchat--- I told her I added her, as I related previously, and she told me her daughter must be uying it, since she doesn;t have it. She then pretended to download and "recover her account" and then refused to add me, saying she wasn't interested in it.
But I keep an eye on it, and have two occasions where she had a snapchat story active. I can't see it, because we're not friends, but I can see that it exists. But ok, whatever, there's been nothing else, and I was just planning to deal with it.
Until Saturday.... I checked snapchat while we were at the pool, and her name doesn't show up anymore. I can't find her, it's like she doesn't exist. Well, i'm not a f*cking moron. I immediately created a new account, and yep, sure thing, there she is again. So My wife, who doesn't use snapchat, who isn't interested in snapchat, who mysteriously has stories on snapchat (not often, but they are there), and who lied to me telling me her daughter was using the snapchat account--- has decided to take the time and energy to block me on snapchat.
There is something on snapchat she doesn't want me to see or know about.
[This message edited by swoned at 6:04 PM, Tuesday, June 20th]