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So ws had a lta... and well the ap was single. So I didn't have a bs to tell.

After my h broke it off, she got together with this new guy maybe while she was with my ws. I don't know. Its been 2 years and I just saw that they got engaged. She wrote "this the the love I have been waiting for"

I dont feel much. She got this after she worked to destroy my marriage, selfish, immature...

This guy, he seems to have alot of what any woman would want. He also has two little kids... She seems set up for life now unless.... you know...

Id appreciate some thoughts .. I dont know what. Maybe I just want to say it out aloud to people who understand and feel my emptiness or whatever it is I'm feeling.

Where is the justice...

[This message edited by Squish at 7:45 PM, Wednesday, March 15th]

I hear you Squish, where is the karma bus ?

I understand and i feel you.

Just let you know that you've been heard.

Sending hugs.

So sorry....give it time, she will get bored and will cheat on this new dude.

Yes. My WS had a single younger immature selfish AP. The affair was discovered by me, which blew it apart, she left town, then less than a year later she was engaged.

I very much feel your pain. No justice or any that we will know of.

I do think she dumped my WS, he thought it was an exit affair and was going to end happily, until it was all discovered and she hightailed it out of town. My stupid WS at that time really thought she was going to hang around for him.

That single AP blew up a whole family, but they don't see it that way.

The justice is where cheaters go when they pass away

I would send an anonymous letter stating she's a homewrecker and that their relationship possibly started while she was dating a married man. No WAY would I sit and wait for something for years on end to happen! Also might want to tell the guy's mother, sisters and extended family. Shrug. Up to you, though.These lowlife cheaters should come with warning signs, so.....

I don’t know if I believe in karma, I know a lot of people who have been hurt by others but don’t see any justice. Maybe what I’m looking for in justice isnt what karma is.

I mean no one sees what I’m going through but it’s the worst agony/pain grief I have ever been through. Maybe karma can be internal like this.

It’s just hard to watch. Like they got it easy, and in the end got what they want. But I know that’s not true either. If you are that immature and lack in your understanding of things, or your willing to destroy someone else’s family how can you truly be happy? And to look for external validation where it can end at any time.

Ahhh I guess she will never find true happiness unless she looks within. Which I don’t believe she is even capable of doing. Is that karma enough for me? Maybe…. All the pics and smiles are just the surface. But I hope her life is filled with as much agony as I have felt if not more.

Squish ,

I understand you completely.

1st the AP destroys your life.

Then the AP "gets away with it".

Then, to add insult to injury she got engaged.

How infuriating !!!

I get it, too, but you have your integrity…and unless she has changed completely, she doesn’t even know what integrity is.

Also, if it gives you any peace, if she HAS changed, she would have to be torn up knowing all the destruction she has caused.

Well AP loves married men, now she has her own.

A friend used those words to congratulate the AP's IG announcement.

Well AP loves married men, now she has her own.

A friend used those words to congratulate the AP's IG announcement.

LOVE THIS!!

This guy, he seems to have alot of what any woman would want. He also has two little kids...

Was the adultery co-conspirator responsible for the destruction of this guy's M as well? It seems that way judging from what she wrote. If so...they deserve each other. The two kids' Mom will probably move on to find someone worthy of their love...and Dear Old Dad will have missed out on what could have been a WONDERFUL life. Instead...he will be wondering if his new wife is cheating on HIM...and vice versa.

The adultery co-conspirator in MY case wrote in an email to me that she had found her a new man. She then went on to say that he was single...lol! She did this in a reply to an email I sent her because she kept trying to contact my H after he sent her a NC message. YES...she supposedly had a "new man"...yet she was still trying to contact my H...you can't make this stuff up!!

Whatever the case is for the adultery co-conspirator in YOUR case...if she hasn't done something to get rid of the ROTTING stuff inside her to cause her to want to be a "sloppy second"...it will just continue to ROT. A turd that gets all dressed up and sparkly on the outside...is still a turd.