Cookies are required for login or registration. Please read and agree to our cookie policy to continue.

Newest Member: DCS72

Off Topic :
Countdown to the Winter Solstice

Topic is Sleeping.
default

 number4 (original poster member #62204) posted at 8:10 AM on Monday, December 19th, 2022

Only two more days!! Who’s excited to see more daylight minutes?!? 🙋‍♀️

Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R

posts: 1382   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2018   ·   location: New England
id 8770062
default

BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 8:14 AM on Monday, December 19th, 2022

Mmmmmeeee! I hate the short days!

Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)

**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **

posts: 6240   ·   registered: Sep. 10th, 2016   ·   location: Northern CA
id 8770064
default

annb ( member #22386) posted at 12:15 PM on Monday, December 19th, 2022

Raises hand!

I love this time of year just prior to the holidays, but the darkness is so depressing.

During the summer months I am out and about or just sitting in my yard with my dog or busy doing little chores around the house.

This time of year, I'm eating dinner at 5, and in my jammies by 6. No real motivation to do any little task once it's dark. sad

posts: 12208   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 8770068
default

tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 1:35 PM on Monday, December 19th, 2022

I was discussing this my H last week.
I HATE everything about winter, the cold, the dark dreary days, the lack of sunlight, the cold, the snow, the ice, the dark dreary days, the cold, and most of all the lack of sunlight. LOL

Seriously though I give a little cheer when the sun sets on that shortest of days, and usually go to be extra early, I settle in for a long winters nap.

But think in a month it will still be light out after work, and the sun will be up hopefully before I log into my work computer.

It's a dark dreary winter morning here, with some precip expected tonight, but later this week real snow, and super cold temps.

I don't know if I have mentioned it before, but I HATE WINTER !!!!! Come on longer days.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 20306   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
id 8770075
default

 number4 (original poster member #62204) posted at 4:29 AM on Wednesday, December 21st, 2022

Gosh I'm feeling for those of you with really early dark days. Here in SoCal, it's not completely dark until almost 5:15-5:30. I mean, I'm turning lights on in the house around 4, but there are glimmers of light in the sky until well after 5.

I hope none of you have travel plans impacted by the impending blizzard and bomb cyclone. But yea, would it be December without some miserable weather somewhere in the states?

Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R

posts: 1382   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2018   ·   location: New England
id 8770263
default

Solarchick ( member #80222) posted at 5:34 AM on Wednesday, December 21st, 2022

I'm glad I'm not the only one that can't wait for the shortening of the days to be OVER and get back onto the upswing. I have SAD, and position my desk as close to windows as I can so I can soak up every possible photon I can. It's cold in that corner of our new place, but I can always put on more clothes, right? (BTW, that adage is not true. Three sweaters, and it gets hard to bend your arms.) But it's a heck of a lot warmer down here in the South than up where I come from!

C'mon sun! Is it daylight savings time yet?

Me: BW, 57, two awesome grown sons. Remarried in 2010. That lasted 11 years.WXH: Not even a blip on my radar anymore. I'm glad he's messing up the OW's life now and leaving me alone. D (with cause) in 2004.

posts: 153   ·   registered: Apr. 11th, 2022   ·   location: Charleston, SC
id 8770272
default

 number4 (original poster member #62204) posted at 4:47 AM on Thursday, December 22nd, 2022

We made it! No more decrease in daylight minutes until next June!

Don't know about other areas, but where we live, the sunrise loses four minutes between now and January 16th, when the sun starts coming up earlier again. But between now and then, we gain 19 minutes of daylight before sunset. All in all, a net gain!

Me: BWHim: WHMarried - 30+ yearsTwo adult daughters1st affair: 2005-20072nd-4th affairs: 2016-2017Many assessments/polygraph: no sex addictionStatus: R

posts: 1382   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2018   ·   location: New England
id 8770384
default

tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:22 PM on Thursday, December 22nd, 2022

Days get longer from here.
Of course we are set for a polar vortex, bomb cyclone, winter storm "of a lifetime" as they said on the news this am.

It's going to snow and get bitter cold. I plan to stay in my house until further notice. LOL.

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

posts: 20306   ·   registered: Oct. 1st, 2008   ·   location: St. Louis
id 8770408
default

Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 7:51 PM on Thursday, December 22nd, 2022

Snow and ice bomb cycle is right!

Dang! It's cold. We have about one inch of light snow. No way am I getting out for anything! I have a Dutch Apple pie in the oven, smelling so good and warming up the kitchen.

I am a SUMMER person, do not like winter.

"Because I deserve better"

posts: 3731   ·   registered: Feb. 1st, 2005
id 8770443
default

zebra25 ( member #29431) posted at 8:07 PM on Thursday, December 22nd, 2022

We got a few inches of snow and it is now sleeting and changing over to rain.

The temperature is going up and then going to drop drastically tomorrow. Wind and cold advisories for the next two days. I hope the power stays on. We have a generator but it can't handle the heat pump.

I would be happy if the temperature would stay between 50 and 75. I don't like winter but I don't like heat and humidity either.

Stay safe and warm everybody!!

"Don't let anyone who hasn't been in your shoes tell you how to tie your laces."

D-day April 2010

posts: 3685   ·   registered: Aug. 25th, 2010
id 8770446
Topic is Sleeping.
Cookies on SurvivingInfidelity.com®

SurvivingInfidelity.com® uses cookies to enhance your visit to our website. This is a requirement for participants to login, post and use other features. Visitors may opt out, but the website will be less functional for you.

v.1.001.20241206b 2002-2024 SurvivingInfidelity.com® All Rights Reserved. • Privacy Policy