sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 11:42 PM on Thursday, August 5th, 2021
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Jeaniegirl (original poster member #6370) posted at 4:56 AM on Friday, August 6th, 2021
It's just so good to be able to be UP and doing a few things. My two puppies (and my Grand-dog) so happy I was up, in the living room - as I have been 'living' in my bedroom, close to the heating pad. I managed some laundry, some minor chores - and cooked. I also checked on a couple of cases that I had delegated to someone else. It was great to feel normal. In a few days I will start my outside walking in the evening, to try to build back some muscle. I lost a total of 21 pounds (got down to 99 lbs.) but I am back UP to 110, the weight I like to be. But I want my muscle back, my firm arms and my softball player legs. 
Sure hope they aren't gone forever.
"Because I deserve better"
Jeaniegirl (original poster member #6370) posted at 3:49 PM on Sunday, October 3rd, 2021
Hello everyone~ Just checking in. It's been four month tomorrow since my cancer surgery. I'm doing well and up and about. Still staying in due to Covid though. I've had to have two pain management treatments for the loose nerves around the rib cage area, which cause a LOT of pain. But that is about gone. I'm still having a little trouble eating and gaining weight but slowly that's changing.
My young cousin's husband is in ICU with covid. They have only been married three months and just started building a new home. I feel so bad for her - and him. He was hospitalized Sept. 1 and is still on a vent.
Take care and stay safe!
"Because I deserve better"
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 5:13 PM on Sunday, October 3rd, 2021
Im glad to hear you are doing well.
So sorry about your friend. Covid is still very much a big deal. I wish more people took it seriously.
Hugs.
Me: BS 44 nowWH: 35 almost 36 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons.Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that.Full disclosure March 8th 2019 four AP's.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 6:20 PM on Sunday, October 3rd, 2021
Glad you are on the mend, Jeanie. Sending healing mojo to your family with COVID.
Me: BS 54 (49 on d-day)Him: WH. 64D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA
Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
