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leafields (original poster guide #63517) posted at 12:16 AM on Friday, February 26th, 2021
Got the call from Family Court a little bit ago. The judge signed the papers, so we're now officially divorced. Only delayed about a week, and now I can quit stressing about when the call will come.
I'm sad, scared, happy & hopeful all at the same time. Glad it's over.
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
Ratpicker ( member #57986) posted at 1:20 AM on Friday, February 26th, 2021
Leafields. Congrats on making it thru and breathing! Be hopeful, very hopeful!
Road of life is paved with dead squirrels who couldn't make a decision.
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 1:54 AM on Friday, February 26th, 2021
Bittersweet, I’m sure. But now the healing can begin in earnest.
Welcome to your next, most fabulous, chapter!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 1:59 AM on Friday, February 26th, 2021
Be extra extra kind to yourself tonight - you deserve some quiet peace for sure.
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
InPurgatory ( member #52668) posted at 2:36 AM on Friday, February 26th, 2021
Congratulations on making it through! I hope you find some peace for yourself.
Me - BS 59
Him - WS 59
AP - his "friend" (she was 24 when the A started, he was 52)
M 34 yrs, together 39yrs.
2 adult offspring
D-Day#1: 6-29-14 , Final DDay: 5-19-15 (too many others in between to count, due to continued breaking of NC
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 2:44 AM on Friday, February 26th, 2021
Congratulations. Breathe easy, take care of you. You made it!!
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
thatbpguy ( member #58540) posted at 4:19 PM on Friday, February 26th, 2021
It is indeed a tough step into the abyss. But everyday is fresh, new and anything can happen. Enjoy!
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
barcher144 ( member #54935) posted at 4:38 PM on Friday, February 26th, 2021
Happy Sock Day!
Be extra extra kind to yourself tonight - you deserve some quiet peace for sure.
Definitely do this. It's a mixture of emotions for sure.
Me: Crap, I'm 50 years old. D-Day: August 30, 2016. Two years of false reconciliation. Divorce final: Feb 1, 2021. Re-married: December 3, 2022.
Adira ( member #77327) posted at 11:27 PM on Friday, February 26th, 2021
Congratulations. Now you're free to live a peaceful life!
Me BW, STBXWH covert NPD
2 teenage kids
M: 24 years, together 27 years
3x DDays: 08/2017; 10/2017; 02/2018 with the Hobbit Howorker.
False R: 02/2018-12/2020
Currently in IHS
fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 12:10 AM on Saturday, February 27th, 2021
leafields, congrats! I know it’s been a long road. Heal and take time for you. Enjoy the peace you deserve.
Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 3:51 AM on Saturday, February 27th, 2021
Wishing you peace and healing.
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
CoderMom ( member #66033) posted at 4:36 AM on Monday, March 1st, 2021
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