Topic is Sleeping.
Party Monkey (original poster moderator #30) posted at 2:11 PM on Wednesday, October 28th, 2020
Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 2:30 PM on Wednesday, October 28th, 2020
Married 2005
D-Day April, 2015
Divorced May, 2022
"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button." -Brene Brown
WalkinOnEggshelz ( member #29447) posted at 3:18 AM on Thursday, October 29th, 2020
Congrats! 
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.
lieshurt ( member #14003) posted at 3:05 PM on Thursday, October 29th, 2020
No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.
MrsWalloped ( member #62313) posted at 3:49 PM on Thursday, October 29th, 2020
Me: WW 47
My BH: Walloped 48
A: 3/15 - 8/15 (2 month EA, turned into 3 month PA)
DDay: 8/3/15
In R
wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 11:59 AM on Saturday, October 31st, 2020
FBH - 52 FWW - 53 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 17 & 22The people you do your life with shape the life you live
BraveSirRobin ( member #69242) posted at 2:57 PM on Monday, November 2nd, 2020
Thank you for all your hard work and devotion to helping others on SI along with yourself. I wish the last 100 posts had been better news, but I believe your work has proved that you're equal to whatever path you choose to walk from here.
Ripped62 ( member #60667) posted at 2:14 PM on Wednesday, November 4th, 2020
Thank you for your insight and healing.
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:52 PM on Wednesday, November 4th, 2020
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Bigger ( Attaché #8354) posted at 1:27 PM on Thursday, December 3rd, 2020
"If, therefore, any be unhappy, let him remember that he is unhappy by reason of himself alone." Epictetus
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 7:25 PM on Thursday, December 3rd, 2020
Thank you for always showing up authentically and with a helping spirit!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 1:24 AM on Friday, December 4th, 2020
Wow!!
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Topic is Sleeping.
