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Reconciliation :
Thankful Thursday

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 Want2BHappyAgain (original poster member #45088) posted at 10:37 PM on Thursday, January 13th, 2022

I’m thankful for you Coozan, you have been very helpful to us navigating the rough waters.

You're welcome Coozann Tan smile . Y'all did a pretty good job yourselves grin . I just traversed those rough waters ahead of y'all...so I knew where the rapids were!

I am really sad to see y'all having to relive that HORRIBLE day crying . But you turned TOWARD your lovely wife when she needed you...what a BLESSING that was for BOTH of you smile . She was able to see what LOVE really was...and that Cuz...was ALL YOU smile .

A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)

I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!

From respect comes great love...sassylee

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Tanner ( member #72235) posted at 12:17 AM on Friday, January 14th, 2022

I’m 6’1" My high was 245 and my goal is 195. I made goal but currently sit at 203. Im much better at fitness than nutrition, as is the case with most people.

Sorry for the t/j

Dday Sept 7 2019 working toward R
BH 54 WW 48
M 30 years, 4 kids 2 grown 2 grandkids

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This0is0Fine ( member #72277) posted at 12:55 AM on Friday, January 14th, 2022

Can't outrun the fork.

I also apologize for the t/j despite continuing it.

Love is not a measure of capacity for pain you are willing to endure for your partner.

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Tanner ( member #72235) posted at 1:25 AM on Friday, January 14th, 2022

I also apologize for the t/j despite continuing it.

It’s ok OP is my Cajun Coozan. Just ad emojis smile grin laugh blush

Dday Sept 7 2019 working toward R
BH 54 WW 48
M 30 years, 4 kids 2 grown 2 grandkids

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Grieving ( member #79540) posted at 1:35 AM on Friday, January 14th, 2022

I am super grateful for the three day weekend coming up.

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 Want2BHappyAgain (original poster member #45088) posted at 2:46 AM on Friday, January 14th, 2022

It’s ok OP is my Cajun Coozan. Just ad emojis smile grin laugh blush

laugh laugh laugh

Where everyplace else...people eat to live...in Cajun Country...we live to eat grin !!! So keep on with the nutrition stuff...I may learn something!!

Grieving...ENJOY that much needed REST smile !!

A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)

I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!

From respect comes great love...sassylee

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Tanner ( member #72235) posted at 2:55 AM on Friday, January 14th, 2022

So keep on with the nutrition stuff...I may learn something!!

No nutrition is always the struggle. I can work out like a machine, but I have weaknesses in nutrition 🤣

Dday Sept 7 2019 working toward R
BH 54 WW 48
M 30 years, 4 kids 2 grown 2 grandkids

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 Want2BHappyAgain (original poster member #45088) posted at 4:07 PM on Thursday, January 20th, 2022

Happy "Thankful Thursday" to everyone grin !!

I woke up this morning to very gloomy weather. I can remember when there was a time that this weather would cause me to just stay in bed...feeling just as gloomy as the weather. Actually...even on some sunny days it felt like a cloud was over me...making me want to just be swallowed up in the covers and not come out into the world until the cloud was gone. It was NOT a good feeling at all sad .

But TODAY...my heart is HAPPY smile . Life isn't perfect...but that cloud...that depression that robbed me of any type of peace...is gone. I can remember it...but Thank God I am not FEELING it anymore. I am so THANKFUL for PEACE smile . I pray that one day ALL of us can have that smile .

A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)

I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!

From respect comes great love...sassylee

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Tanner ( member #72235) posted at 10:56 PM on Thursday, January 20th, 2022

I’m thankful for some answered prayers today. I have spent a couple years in personal limbo, not not really growing my business just maintaining it. Partly due to Covid but the other part was just survival mode.

We own a business that is essential and fairly recession proof, I’m so thankful. I’m ready to start working towards retirement, we are moving forward with franchising this business so I can transition out of the day to day.

I’ve reached a point I trust my W to be by my side in this new chapter.

Dday Sept 7 2019 working toward R
BH 54 WW 48
M 30 years, 4 kids 2 grown 2 grandkids

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This0is0Fine ( member #72277) posted at 12:36 AM on Friday, January 21st, 2022

Continuing on last week's theme and threadjack, I'm thankful for pickles. They are a low calorie salty crunchy thing.

Love is not a measure of capacity for pain you are willing to endure for your partner.

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Grieving ( member #79540) posted at 1:39 AM on Friday, January 21st, 2022

It was a really hard morning—woke up to a dream that my husband was cheating on me again.

He’s traveling for work for the first time since Covid began. Two years ago this same trip kicked off his affair with a coworker who went with him. I don’t think he gets how painful and scary it is for me to repeat this travel scenario. (He’s solo this time; it’s a different destination but same general work thing).

So, the morning was super rough. Due to a combination of snow/ice/Covid, though, my district called a virtual day. So I was able to work hard from home and hide behind a screen rather than put on a brave face and face 150 super needy students in person. I am so grateful for that. And rather than moping when the work day was done, I went out and shoveled a ton of snow in the bright sunshine, which helped my mood. Followed by a treadmill run and a core workout. I’m going to play a board game with my kids now.

So today I’m thankful for sunshine, snow hard work, good luck, fun with my kids, and my own resilience.

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Tanner ( member #72235) posted at 2:36 AM on Friday, January 21st, 2022

This0is0fine I love pickles, great snack.

Grieving it seems virtual days come right when you need it. You handled that trigger like a boss.

[This message edited by Tanner at 2:37 AM, Friday, January 21st]

Dday Sept 7 2019 working toward R
BH 54 WW 48
M 30 years, 4 kids 2 grown 2 grandkids

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Grieving ( member #79540) posted at 3:29 AM on Friday, January 21st, 2022

Thank you, Tanner.

And I am grateful for pickles too! They’re a great snack.

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