This is my new beginning,
This is my realisation that I have moved out of Infidelity,
(LIKE SERIOUSLY I'M OUT OF INFIDELITY)
I'm under no-ones thumb,
I'm in control of my life, for the 1st time in soooo damn long I am living MY life.
I posted a response on someone else's thread, then after rereading it I realised the words I typed I meant them, like really really meant them, I didn't have to go back over to auto correct, add in missed words, add in forgotten points, I didn't have to edit for absolutely anything as its my truth, Its my new beginning said straight from my mended heart.
Im not some weak, mild mannered, little scrap of a person anymore, I'm no longer a shell of my former self, I'm no longer the 1 in the corner saying nothing, I'm no longer trying to be as small as I can be.
I'm no longer that person who can be bullied or manipulated by anyone.
Now I'm Brave, BIGGER, outspoken without being brash or argumentative.
I don't stay in corners trying to be small, I'm amongst the crowd, talking, laughing, having an opinion, participating & conversing with EVERYONE.
Mentally & physically I am fitter, healthier, & stronger than I've ever been.
I'm comfortable in most situations now, I check for exits & escape routes etc but other than that I'm now relaxed in most situations.
I do make a point of not looking for ulterior motives in peoples actions & words as I don't want to become cynical or bitter.
I'm now happy & proud of the woman I have become
SI & its wonderfully insightful members have given me support, guidance, genuine warmth, lots of hugs & strength during my time spent here,
I truly wouldn't be here today if it wasn't for all of you.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart to you all (you know who you are)
BBE's has become a force to be reckoned with