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Pagurl (original poster member #21978) posted at 5:17 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2019
Hi all...I wanted to come back and give an update. I posted a little over a year ago about feeling good where I was with my life. I had just met a really wonderful man and was so excited for the future.
Here’s the update, I am now married to that wonderful man. We say every day how blessed we are and how thankful we are for our nice, quiet and drama free life.
I realized today just how well I am doing because I couldn’t remember the name of this website 
I consider myself fully graduated from the school of infidelity. My advice to those who aren’t here yet and don’t know if you will ever feel happy again....YOU WILL!! It will happen when it is supposed to. I believe I had to learn some lessons first to appreciate my gift of this good life now.
It was the support of this great group of people, my friends, faith and family who helped me along this journey. I can never say thank you enough!!!
Remarried 3/2019 to a wonderful man.
betrayed in 2006 & again in 2008. Separated 2012 and divorced 2014.
exWH married OW on New Years Eve 2015...now I can say she did me a favor...he's NPD
CaliforniaNative ( member #60149) posted at 9:21 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2019
That’s wonderful news. Thanks for the update and wishing you continued happiness.
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 9:22 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2019
Hello neighbor!
Glad to hear everything is going great!
Stop back when you can. There are lots of folks here that can benefit greatly from the SI vets.
Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 9:48 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2019
Thanks for coming back and giving this AWESOME update 
!!!
A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.
With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)
I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!
From respect comes great love...sassylee
Phoenix1 ( member #38928) posted at 9:58 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2019
Awesome update! Congrats! 
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 10:53 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2019
Congrats! I love posts like this. You deserve every happiness in this life!
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 12:43 AM on Thursday, August 15th, 2019
Nice update! Thanks so much for letting us see your beautiful new beginning!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
EllieKMAS ( member #68900) posted at 12:51 AM on Thursday, August 15th, 2019
Aww this made me so happy! Good for you and cheers to your calm and peaceful life!
"No, it's you mothafucka, here's a list of reasons why." – Iliza Schlesinger
"The love that you lost isn't worth what it cost and in time you'll be glad that it's gone." – Linkin Park
burninghouse ( member #63308) posted at 4:45 AM on Thursday, August 15th, 2019
Thank you for the update and the good news! We never really know what life has in store... :)
BW (me)
WH (him)
D-day 3/2018
Divorcing
Reminding myself often, "The last of the human freedoms: to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” Viktor Frankl
GraceLove ( member #59212) posted at 6:12 AM on Thursday, August 15th, 2019
This is so good to hear!
Congrats on your inspiring post!!
LilBlackCat ( member #57470) posted at 8:14 PM on Thursday, August 15th, 2019
Congrats on your new life!
Posts like this, used to make me feel jealous.. now I do think, that I am in an even better spot then before.. as they now give me hope...
Me: BS 43 (Now 50)
Her: WW 37
18 M, 19 Together
4 Children, youngest is now 9.
Divorce Final as of 9/3/19.
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 8:57 PM on Thursday, August 15th, 2019
how thankful we are for our nice, quiet and drama free life.
YES!!!! Both when I was single and now with my no-drama man, I am so GLAD to be rid of the drama!!!
So happy for you!!!
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