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Happy Birthday Wifehad5 !!!!!!!!!!!!

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 BrokenRoad (original poster member #15334) posted at 5:06 AM on Thursday, July 25th, 2019

Hope you have a wonderful day!

[This message edited by BrokenRoad at 11:06 PM, July 24th (Wednesday)]

{Him}FBH - 50 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 50 2 kids: 14 & 19 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*

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WalkinOnEggshelz ( Administrator #29447) posted at 10:36 AM on Thursday, July 25th, 2019

Happy Birthday WH5!!! I hope you have a day as awesome as you are. I’m sure BR will have an amazing cake for you.

Me: WS late 40’s
Him: BH (HoldingTogether)
D Day: 7/24/2010
If you keep asking people to give you the benefit of the doubt, they will eventually start to doubt your benefit.

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Ripped62 ( member #60667) posted at 1:57 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2019

Happy Birthday 5!

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Chili ( member #35503) posted at 4:19 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2019

Happy happiest to thee! Have a wonderful day.

2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Loving flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett

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wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 8:59 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2019

Thank you

FBH - 50 FWW - 50 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 14 & 18
The people you do your life with shape the life you live

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steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 11:14 PM on Thursday, July 25th, 2019

Happy Birthday, Wifehad5.

BH(me)70; XWW 64; M 42 yrs
DDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14
LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW
"dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, lies
Separated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020

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Unhinged ( member #47977) posted at 2:08 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2019

Happy birthday "boss."

Heading towards divorce
D-Day April, 2015

"The Universe is not short on wake-up calls. We're just quick to hit the snooze button."
-Brene Brown

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minusone ( member #50175) posted at 12:10 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2019

Happy Birthday Wifehad5!!!

"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou

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lieshurt ( Moderator #14003) posted at 1:35 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2019

Happy Birthday!!!

No one changes unless they want to. Not if you beg them. Not if you shame them. Not if you use reason, emotion, or tough love. There is only one thing that makes someone change: their own realization that they need to.

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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 5:22 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2019

Happy Birthday!

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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Tred ( member #34086) posted at 5:56 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2019

Happy Birthday Badass! Hope you have a great day and BR makes you a fabulous cake

Married: 24 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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foreverlabeled ( member #52070) posted at 10:25 PM on Friday, July 26th, 2019

Happy Birthday

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sisoon ( Guide #31240) posted at 12:01 AM on Saturday, July 27th, 2019

Happy birthday!

fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.

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traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 2:02 AM on Saturday, July 27th, 2019

Happy Birthday 🎉

Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...

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thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 4:22 AM on Saturday, July 27th, 2019

Happy Birthday WH5!! And thank you for all you do!

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 2:31 PM on Sunday, July 28th, 2019

.. Sorry I'm late....

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY" to YOU! ..are you 1 ? are you 2 ?.. are you..????

smy

trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!Me 74 Her 70 Married 49 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumor!

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burninghouse ( member #63308) posted at 3:50 PM on Wednesday, July 31st, 2019

Happy (belated) Birthday Wifehad5!!!!

BW (me)
WH (him)
D-day 3/2018
Divorcing

Reminding myself often, "The last of the human freedoms: to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” Viktor Frankl

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Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 4:16 PM on Wednesday, July 31st, 2019

Happy Birthday

BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decadesChildren (1 still at home)Multiple DDays w/same AP until I told OBSBrandishing a sword, channeling my inner Inigo Montoya and saying "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"

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wifehad5 ( Administrator #15162) posted at 3:03 AM on Thursday, August 1st, 2019

Thanks again everyone

FBH - 50 FWW - 50 (BrokenRoad)2 kids 14 & 18
The people you do your life with shape the life you live

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Cephastion ( member #51990) posted at 7:00 PM on Thursday, August 1st, 2019

The people we do life with do indeed shape the life we live.

Thank you so much for being a very real part of improving the quality of life for SO MANY people just out of the care of your own heart for others.

You have helped others have more happy lives than they would have without you in their lives to make that possible.

[This message edited by Cephastion at 1:01 PM, August 1st (Thursday)]

BH-me / WW-(Pyrite)
Left Thanksgiving 2019 w/ unresolved childhood trauma and other general selfishness issues that she refuses to honestly address, resolve,& heal from.--"For where your wealth/treasure is, there will your heart be also."--Yeshua

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