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WTFOVER ( member #61195) posted at 7:38 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2019
I suggest you do not write it. Do not give her the time of day. Let her wallow in her miserable life and do not give her a chance to re-enter your life.
Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 11:46 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2019
Here is what I think you should do. Go on several vacations or long weekends. Post pictures of you having a fantastic time, laughing, drinking, enjoying the scenery, whatever is fun for you. Post them to Facebook, Instagram, and keep posting. I think that’s the best sort of letter you could write. My life is amazing now - see world. I went through hell and I am strong. I am great.
Tallgirl ( member #64088) posted at 11:46 AM on Friday, July 26th, 2019
Dup
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josiep ( member #58593) posted at 3:05 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2019
I did send a letter before I found S.I. I never got a response. For all I know, they never read it (I emailed it to her and then 2 days later, to him). I'm not exactly sorry because it talked about our marital history which I'm sure she doesn't know any of (cuz he's rewritten it).
But I did include one line that I would like to get put on a t-shirt, something about how every morning they get to wake up to a new day and it's too bad that when they open their eyes, they'll be looking into the eyes of cheating, lying, adulterous whore.
BW, was 67; now 74; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. D July, 2017
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 3:09 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2019
I've written many of them.
Some scathing, some reflective, some emotional outpours, some are dark fantasy. I've NEVER sent them. They are for me. I have a file...
Sometimes it feels good to purge your system.
Write the letter.
I strongly advise against sending it.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
AbandonedGuy ( member #66456) posted at 8:06 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2019
Dear Grizzly Adams,
Thank you. No, really, thank you. She's your problem now. If they cheat with you, they cheat on you, heh heh. Hopefully you can be the surrogate daddy this womanchild needs and that I couldn't be. Keep an eye on her when she's drunk, she gets handsy, but I'm sure you know that already. Best of luck to ya, sucker.
Cheers,
AbandonedGuy
Edit: that was a fun exercise 
[This message edited by AbandonedGuy at 2:06 PM, July 29th (Monday)]
EmancipatedFella, formerly AbandonedGuy
puffstuff ( member #70814) posted at 8:48 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2019
I'd love to write one with the simple words:
Thank You
MamaDragon ( member #63791) posted at 9:18 PM on Monday, July 29th, 2019
nope. Everything I had to say to her, well I said it directly to her.
Knowing what I know now though, I would not have confronted her at all. I'd have kept it in my hat for when I really wanted to fuck with her.
BS - 40 something at A time, over 50 now
WS - him, younger than me
Reconciled
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