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Anyone Ever Written a Letter to AP?

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WTFOVER posted 7/26/2019 01:38 AM

I suggest you do not write it. Do not give her the time of day. Let her wallow in her miserable life and do not give her a chance to re-enter your life.

Tallgirl posted 7/26/2019 05:46 AM

Here is what I think you should do. Go on several vacations or long weekends. Post pictures of you having a fantastic time, laughing, drinking, enjoying the scenery, whatever is fun for you. Post them to Facebook, Instagram, and keep posting. I think thatís the best sort of letter you could write. My life is amazing now - see world. I went through hell and I am strong. I am great.

Tallgirl posted 7/26/2019 05:46 AM


[This message edited by Tallgirl at 5:47 AM, July 26th (Friday)]

josiep posted 7/29/2019 09:05 AM

I did send a letter before I found S.I. I never got a response. For all I know, they never read it (I emailed it to her and then 2 days later, to him). I'm not exactly sorry because it talked about our marital history which I'm sure she doesn't know any of (cuz he's rewritten it).

But I did include one line that I would like to get put on a t-shirt, something about how every morning they get to wake up to a new day and it's too bad that when they open their eyes, they'll be looking into the eyes of cheating, lying, adulterous whore.

Chaos posted 7/29/2019 09:09 AM

I've written many of them.

Some scathing, some reflective, some emotional outpours, some are dark fantasy. I've NEVER sent them. They are for me. I have a file...

Sometimes it feels good to purge your system.

Write the letter.

I strongly advise against sending it.

AbandonedGuy posted 7/29/2019 14:06 PM

Dear Grizzly Adams,

Thank you. No, really, thank you. She's your problem now. If they cheat with you, they cheat on you, heh heh. Hopefully you can be the surrogate daddy this womanchild needs and that I couldn't be. Keep an eye on her when she's drunk, she gets handsy, but I'm sure you know that already. Best of luck to ya, sucker.



Edit: that was a fun exercise

[This message edited by AbandonedGuy at 2:06 PM, July 29th (Monday)]

puffstuff posted 7/29/2019 14:48 PM

I'd love to write one with the simple words:

Thank You

MamaDragon posted 7/29/2019 15:18 PM

nope. Everything I had to say to her, well I said it directly to her.

Knowing what I know now though, I would not have confronted her at all. I'd have kept it in my hat for when I really wanted to fuck with her.

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