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looking forward (original poster member #25238) posted at 9:36 PM on Saturday, April 27th, 2019
...on our favourite beach...Negril, Jamaica!
[This message edited by looking forward at 6:08 PM, April 29th (Monday)]
Together 56 years, Married 51 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 9:47 PM on Saturday, April 27th, 2019
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
cptprkchp ( member #11719) posted at 3:31 AM on Sunday, April 28th, 2019
You are a miracle!!
I’m coming up on 9 years June 29th!
Simply amazing!
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 3:54 AM on Sunday, April 28th, 2019
Congrats! Such an accomplishment!
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Edie ( member #26133) posted at 9:46 AM on Sunday, April 28th, 2019
You look great LF.
Well done! 😊😊
devasted30 ( member #39439) posted at 1:16 PM on Sunday, April 28th, 2019
Congratulations LF. You Rock.
And remember Murphy is right. Nothing is so bad that it can't get worse!!!
BetrayedPR77 ( member #69207) posted at 1:25 PM on Sunday, April 28th, 2019
Me- BH (b. 1977)
She - WW (b. 1981)
Together since 2001, married in 2005
LTA - 7 years - Double Betrayal
DDay - 10/03/2018
DDay 2 - 01/05/2019 (learn the true length of the A)
"Not my circus, not my monkeys"
Status: Next stop: Divo
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 3:21 PM on Sunday, April 28th, 2019
Great work. One day at a time! Woo hoo!!!!
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 6:01 PM on Sunday, April 28th, 2019
Congratulations!
I'm very happy for you, and I really like your way of celebrating ... on a warm beach.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
DDay - 12/22/2010
Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
minusone ( member #50175) posted at 8:40 PM on Sunday, April 28th, 2019
Congrats!!!!! What a wonderful way to celebrate your life!
"I did then what I knew how to do. Now that I know better, I do better". Maya Angelou
Carissima ( member #66330) posted at 10:12 PM on Sunday, April 28th, 2019
Congratulations! Hope you have fun working on your tan x
looking forward (original poster member #25238) posted at 1:14 AM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
@carissima: 
Yup, self-tanning works!
Together 56 years, Married 51 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
northeasternarea ( member #43214) posted at 2:56 AM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
The only person you can change is yourself.
Lionne ( member #25560) posted at 11:01 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
What a wonderful gift to yourself and those who love you! Wonderful!
My son is sober 6 years, his girlfriend 8, my brother 22. I thank the gods everyday that they chose health.
Me-BS-65 in May<BR />HIM-SAFWH-68<BR />I just wanted a normal life.<BR />Normal trauma would have been appreciated.
Bleu ( member #14243) posted at 1:18 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
BS (Me) - 42
WS (It) - 42
Coupled in 1998
DD#1 - 2002
DD#2 - 2003
Married in 2010
DD#3 - 2012
And many more . . .
Divorcing
Two gorgeous, funny and fun little kids
looking forward (original poster member #25238) posted at 1:46 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
@ Lionne:
Congratulations to your family members' sobriety. It is a journey for life!
Alcoholism runs in my family, paternal grandfather, two brothers, twin sister...
I am proud of my twin sister who will celebrate 18 years sobriety on Canada Day!
Thank you, fellow SIers, for your continuing support.
A huge shoutout to my H!
Together 56 years, Married 51 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 8:57 PM on Thursday, May 2nd, 2019
..WELL DONE 'LOOKING FORWARD'...
Life's a BEACH..
Hope there are many golden sunsets left to enjoy both on and off the island of Jamaica.
May your sobriety , your faith and living the truth make the remainder of your life authentic and filled with joy.
smy
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think!Me 77 Her 73 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
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