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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 4:19 AM on Friday, October 7th, 2011

Thanks to SI member drowninginsorrow for starting this thread and mom of 2 for continuing it! Now, it's my turn. Please read the following:

Many thanks to Deeply Scared for reminding us all we need to exercise caution and good judgment when sending private messages to people on this list. I'll repeat what she has said:

DO NOT EXCHANGE PERSONAL INFO WITH ANYONE (info such as email address, home address, phone number, etc.). SEND PRIVATE MESSAGES ONLY. KEEP YOUR REQUESTS GENERAL AND ANONYMOUS.

Having said that, I sense tremendous camaraderie among this group. We've all shared an aspect of infidelity and we know the pain it causes. If someone asked me to private message them the license plate numbers off the cars at such and such an address, I'd do it in a heartbeat. Everyone on this list would. We unfortunately share a common bond and we all have a strong desire to lend a helping hand to those on the road to recovery. But again -

DO NOT REVEAL YOUR PERSONAL INFORMATION TO ANYONE. USE PRIVATE MESSAGES ONLY. KEEP YOUR REQUESTS GENERAL AND ANONYMOUS.

To send a private message to a volunteer snooper, go to your profile (hit the [My Profile] link at the top of most pages). Then use the Search Profiles feature to find your snooper by name. Then send that snooper a private message.

So now you know how to send a PM to a particular person on this list. But what do you say? Send a "greeting" message first and wait for a response. Your first private message should say something like "Hi - I saw your name on the snooping list and I'd like your help. Please write me back if you are available to help."

One of three things will happen next:

1) The person won't read the message because they don't come here anymore

2) The person will read it but will not help because they may be too busy.

3) The person will read it and write you back with an enthusiastic "Yes - I'd love to help."

If you get a "YES" response then you must think carefully about what you want to share with this person. Keep in mind you are talking to a stranger. It's best to keep things in general terms and leave out specific information as much as possible.

For example, ask someone to drive by such and such an address at such and such a time and write down the license plate numbers of all the cars nearby. Do not explain why this address is of interest to you and do not explain whose car you expect to find or not find there.

Another example - please call this phone number and ask for <name> or simply hang up after someone answers and write me back to tell me was it a man or a woman's voice.

Does anyone else have general examples of how to use this list? Thanks.

Lastly - this is an all volunteer organization. User's of this list don't pay to use it and snoopers on this list don't get paid to snoop. If this list doesn't work for you, you can have a full refund.

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LIST UPDATED 10/03/11

State - City or Area - Snooper

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ALABAMA

- Birmingham and surrounding area - NeedingGodsHelp

- Huntsville/Decatur/Madison - lisaloo

- North - iswt2

- Northeast - vtach

ALASKA

- Anchorage - Lucky

ARIZONA

- Bullhead City/Lake Havasu/Grand Canyon - dreamer1

- Chandler/Tempe/Ahwatukee - browniegirl

- Chandler/Tempe/Ahwatukee/South Scottsdale (near old town)/Gilbert - Jayne Doe

- East Phoenix/Chandler/Gilbert/Tempe/Mesa/Scottsdale - TwoHearts

- Gilbert - Basic_Guy

- North Phoenix/Glendale - TruthorGoodbye

- North Phoenix/North Scottsdale - Grinder

- Peoria/Glendale/Surprise area - ntgvngup218

- Phoenix - rolfasaurus

- Phoenix area/Gilbert/Chandler/Mesa - oldtimer97

- Tucson/Sierra Vista - StillLivin

ARKANSAS

- Central - LostJim

- Northwest - eyesnowopen

CALIFORNIA

- Central CA - isthismynewlife

- Central Valley - Rollercoaster

- Fresno/Yosemite to Sacramento - silencesoloud

- Inland Empire area of Southern CA - brokenk

- LA -beachbunny

- LA - lostinlove4ever

- LA/Burbank/Valley/Hollywood/Pasadena - TryingToBreathe

- LA/Orange Cty border - crumbled cookie

- Los Angeles/valley - lilbebe

- Los Angeles/West/Beach cities/Santa Monica - stilluvhim

- Los Angeles/West - paulb

- Los Angeles/SFV/SCV/Eastside/Westside/down to Long Beach - DejaVuu

- Monterey County - letting_go

- Orange Cnty & surrounding areas - Wildride

- Pasadena/San Gabriel Valley - SierraGrace

- Sacramento - StillAmazed

- San Diego - cryinginside

- San Diego - usedtobeme

- San Diego County - Skan

- San Francisco - TortillaChip

- San Francisco Bay area - fraeuken

- San Gabriel Valley/Inland Empire (specifically between Pomona and Rancho Cucamonga), and maybe surrounding cities - claudiasometimes

- San Jose/Morgan Hill/Gilroy - gma56

- Silicon Valley area - Shauna

- Southern - hurtbuttrying

COLORADO

- Colorado Springs - sadscrant

- Colorado Spring, Pueblo, southeastern CO - Lostly

- Denver metro area - CrushedinDenver

- Denver northern suburbs - Where2Now

- Denver proper & Southwest suburbs - ImNellNow

- tamarack - Denver southern suburbs

- Northern - beenthere2?

- Pikes Peak region - wewillsurvive

CONNECTICUT

- Greater Danbury area - dealbreaker

- Northeast corner - completeshock

- Western - riverflow

DELAWARE

FLORIDA

- Central - larac123

- Central - scout

- Central/Hillsborough County - notasaint

- Central - Orlando/Winter Park/Maitland - TheHardWay

- East Orlando/Seminole Co/Sanford area - jrc1963

- Jacksonville - ruinedandbroken

- Lake County (NW of Orlando) - Kajem

- Lee County (SW FL) - atsenaotie

- Miami - Jessy1501

- Northeast - NoTriangles

- Northeast/Jacksonville/Orange Park area - imstillangry

- Northwest (pm for specific city) - will get by

- Northwest - Summerlyn

- Palm Beach County - wantmore

- Palm Beach County - hardtimesinlife

- Panhandle/Tallahassee - brokeninfl

- Pinellas County (W. Central FL) - LostinSadness

- Polk county - italianfireball

- SW - SweetheartVixen

- Treasure Coast - Tresemme

GEORGIA

- Atlanta - midtown/Southside - (Newnan/Peachtree City area) - HIDINGFROMCRAZY

- Atlanta - N suburbs - jenny22

- Atlanta - N suburbs/Suwanee/Sugar Hill/Buford/Dacula/Braselton - sad&scared

- Atlanta - NW suburbs - Devastated104

- Atlanta - W suburbs - Dazed In Dixie

-Columbus/Fort Benning -sad12008

- Middle GA-- Warner Robins area - lilflower1000

- Savannah - DragonflyJ

- Savannah - making it

- Savannah - exsailor66

- Savannah - father of 4

- Savannah - Victorian area near downtown - FormerDimwit

HAWAII

- Big Island (mainly Kona side but perhaps other areas) - CheaterMagnet

- Honolulu - LAFA

IDAHO

- Boise - On_The_Mend

ILLINOIS

- Chicago area - twisted_angel

- Chicago/north & northwest suburbs - mainlyinpain

- Chicago/south suburbs - dghen

- Chicago/southwest suburbs - blindsided68

- Chicago/western suburbs - latebloomer45

- Lake County, Illinois (Northern suburbs of Chicago) - tiredandhurt

- Southern - pitiful

- Southern Illinois, just east of St Louis, MO - hurting2much

INDIANA

- central/east central - confused615

- Indianapolis - Onedayatatime

- Northeast - Weatherly

- Northeast (in summer, 6 mo) - SweetheartVixen

- Northeast - girlie114

- Northeast/Ft. Wayne area - Mama_of_3_Kids

- Southern - brohl5

- Southern - geethemom

- West Central - postitnotes

IOWA

- Eastern - nowiknow23

- Central - slippedhalo

- Western - sadtoo

KANSAS

- Kansas City - meaniemouse

- Northeast - sadtoo

KENTUCKY

- Ft. Campbell - welcome14

- Lexington - putonahappyface

- Louisville - geethemom

- Owensboro/BowlingGreen - brainless twit

- Western - brohl5

- Western - Abby

- Western - OnlyOne

LOUISIANA

- Central - hope4now

- Central/North - austindunn

- Lafayette- veritas

- Northshore, New Orleans to Morgan City - AlwaysWaiting

MAINE

- Portland - Nouveau

- Southern coast - neverbelieve

- southwestern - painfulpast

MARYLAND

- Anne Arundel - HurtJoby

- Baltimore area - Fireball72

- Central Region - 5yrsout

- DC area - Fireball72

- DC area - Beyond

- Outside DC - Sodown

- White Marsh area - yme816

MASSACHUSETTS

- Boston/Metro area - mr-misunderstood

- Boston/South - Catwoman

- Boston and north on 95 - painfulpast

- Bristol and Plymouth Counties - cryingdaily

- Bristol and Norfolk Counties ( Pawtucket R.I.) - karmahappens

- CapeCod, Barnstable - aquamarine

- Metrowest Boston - risingfromashes

- Metrowest - healingmyself

- Norfolk, Sufolk,Plymouth,Bristol,Middlesex - Eric

- North Shore - ShatteredAndDone

- Northern (Essex or Rockingham county) - momofliketriplet

- Northeastern/North Shore/ North suburbs of Boston - sadnews

- Southeast and central - completeshock

- Southeastern - mkr543

- South Shore - wasafriend

- Western Massachusetts - purplefinch

MICHIGAN

- Ann Arbor-myrriad

- Detroit/Metro/Tri-county area - Rise And Shine

- Detroit Area - WarehouseGuy

- Flint - Myheartstillhurt

- Northern Lower MI - covergirl20

- Southeast - itsjustnotfiar

- Southeast - wifehad5

- Southeast - Snapdragon

MINNESOTA

- Minneapolis - Trailrider

- Northwest - Secondbestiguess

- Southeast/Rochester - GrievingMommy

- Southern Twin Cities - mom22kids

- Twin Cities - Eight13

- Twin Cities - capri

- Upper - thewifey

MISSISSIPPI

- Central Mississippi - BrokenLadyInMs

MISSOURI

- Kansas City Metro Area - EasyDoesIt

- Kansas City Metro Area - meaniemouse

- Northern - sadtoo

- St. Louis - Chili

- St. Louis - Ironjawed Woman

- St. Louis - Troi

- St. Louis metro area, particularly west of the MO River - hurting2much

- St. Louis area, especially the western suburbs (possibly more in MO) - BlueinStLou

- St. Louis area - 1Faith

MONTANA

- Great Falls - phoenix_vs

NEBRASKA

- Eastern - Brokeninside1592

- Eastern - phoenix-rising

- Eastern - sadtoo

NEVADA

- Las Vegas - crymsn

- Laughlin/Grand Canyon - dreamer1

- Northern/Elko, Spring Creek areas - DrtBoss

- Reno - dreamlife

NEW HAMPSHIRE

- coastal areas - painfulpast

- Southeastern - neverbelieve

- Southern - ShatteredAndDone

- Southern - momofliketriplet

NEW JERSEY

- Bayonne/Jersey City/Hoboken - Elecin

- Central - jo2love

- Central - worriedNow

- North (Bergen County) - td40

- North/South/Central - HurtYetHealing

- Northern/Central NJ - 2yrs+recovering

- Northwest/Morris/Sussex county area - kajsa

- northwest NJ - ckss4

- Philadelphia/Montgomery/Camden - no mor surprises

- Sussex/Morris counties - 1moretess

- Trenton, Hamilton, Ewing areas - UR_AN_IDIOT

NEW MEXICO

- Albuquerque (occasionally Los Lunas or Belen) - notinsane

- south central up to Albuquerque - icantgetoverit

NEW YORK

- Albany - andyd1950

- Albany/Troy & east into MA/VT - Sad in AZ

- Buffalo - Kamkim

- Buffalo - ragingpain

- Buffalo - childofcheater

- Buffalo - sparkysable

- Central - sharonons

- Long Island/Suffolk & Nassau County - trying2deal

- Long Island/Nassau & Suffolk - NoLongerWantHim

- Long Island/NYC - KGT_123

- Long Island/NYC - stillstinging

- Montgomery County - Pansy Moss

- New York City - romanticidiot

- New York City - going2surviveit

- New York City metro area - Surviving_This

- Orange County & Ulster County - still confounded

- Saratoga - sadtobehere

- Staten Island & Brooklyn - Coma

- Suffolk County - wanttofeelwhole

- Upper Westchester - dealbreaker

- Upstate/Syracuse/Utica/Rome - ImStillwaiting

- Western - Buffalo/Niagara Falls - BeyondConfused

NORTH CAROLINA

- Durham, Chapel Hill - Husburned

- KhristinaC

- Fayetteville - 10yearsgone

- Fort Bragg and the surrounding communities - Spitfire77

- Raleigh - GreatRoleModel

- Robbinsville - forever.haunted

NORTH DAKOTA

- Fargo, ND and Moorhead MN - JadedMusicWidow

OHIO

- Cincinnati - wwnomore

- Cincinnati - dontknowwhyme

- Cleveland - fossilburner

- Cleveland - toolong

- Cleveland/Akron/Canton - gmc276

- Columbus - Bobcap29

- Columbus - Mochagurl

- Dayton - womanfromohio

- Trumbull Mahoning County (& perhaps Ashtabula) - stillhere09

- Wellington - IWILLSOAR

OKLAHOMA

- Broken Arrow & Tulsa - Rollarcoastermom

- OK City metro area - ittybittya

- Oklahoma City metro - twisted

- Oklahoma City, Del City, Midwest City, Moore, Yukon areas of Oklahoma - devotedman

- North East - stillpissed

- Southeast - major misfit

- Southwest/Texoma - booger bear

- Tulsa - Balancing Act

- Tulsa/OKC - greeneyedlass

OREGON

- Coast region - Hurtnstill

- Northeastern/East - deadinside08

- Portland - glad2Bfree

- Portland - gemini_june_20

- Salem - hope2142

- Willamette Valley - budapest

PENNSYLVANIA

- Central (specifically State College/Univ. Park area) - ISPIFFD

- Lower Bucks County - UR_AN_IDIOT

- NW PA - TiredOfTears

- Philadelphia - LostOnVineStreet

- Philadelphia - Tracer

- Philadelphia- woundedgirl

- Philadelphia/Delaware Valley area - Fireball72

- Philly and surrounding area - numb and scared

- Pittsburgh - philly172

- Pittsburgh area - hurtbad2505

- Pocono area - somorelove

- South Central - Tonehua

- Southeast - RKT429SS

- Southwestern - travels

- Southwestern - sportsfan

RHODE ISLAND

- completeshock

- Providence - risingfromashes

- Providence - mkr543

- Providence - Catwoman

- Providence/Kent/Bristol/Newport Counties - cryingdaily

SOUTH CAROLINA

- Camden (with access to Columbia, Sumter, Florence) - ScaredtoLove

- Charleston, Summerville, Mt. Pleasant, and Goose Creek - painpaingoaway

- Greenville - insearchof

- Myrtle Beach area - SMSA925

- Spartanburg - homewrecked2011

SOUTH DAKOTA

- sweetvoice

TENNESSEE

- KhristinaC

- Chattanooga - GeminiDream

- Chattanooga - Wasted me

- Clarksville - welcome14

- Eastern/Knoxville - forever.haunted

- Knoxville - realgood2u

- Knoxville - newnormal

- Memphis - footballdad

- Memphis - willowiris

- Middle TN area - copout

- Nashville/Smyrna/Murfreesboro - SummerBlues

- Nashville/Franklin/Columbia/Springhill - lovinggrace

TEXAS

- Amarillo - worried_lady

- Arlington/Dallas/Ft Worth/surrounding areas - openedupmyeyes

Austin - goodbye_virginia

- Central-Temple/Killeen/Fort Hood/Gatesville - Hissy Fit

- Dallas/Ft Worth - Truthseekholly

- Dallas/Ft. Worth/Arlington and surrounding areas - bitchboots

- Houston - victory

- Houston - moveon?

- Houston - What2do

- Houston-East Side/Baytown - ibmovingon

- Houston-NE Quad - annb

- North Dallas - faith5

- Lubbock & West Texas - purplejacket4

- NW Houston - twistedupinside

- Southeast - deb3129

- Wichita Falls - bufffalo

UTAH

- Salt Lake City - DrtBoss

- Salt Lake City - mamabekay

- Salt Lake City - pbjkiki

- Salt Lake City Metro area - Bellatrix

- Salt Lake City (West) - 1Bite2Shy

VERMONT

-South central Vermont - MWCM

VIRGINIA

- psychowife

- Central/Northern/Charlottesville/surrounding areas to DC - shwankie

- Dulles/Leesburg/Ashburn - Keepbreathing5

- Fredericksburg/Spotsylvania/Stafford and surrounding areas - healingwife

- Norfolk - Issaquah

- Northern - Fireball72

- Northern - Beyond

- Northern/Leesburg/Dulles/DC - PerpleNerple

- Northern from Prince William north up to Falls Church & Arlington - SabinatheOwl

-Northern/PrinceWilliam/Stafford/Arlington (Crystal City)- Retrans

- Northern/Shenandoah Valley area - achingheart

- Northern VA/Prince William County/Fairfax County - SoLostStillNumb

- Richmond - Want2Run

- Richmond - bluestar

WASHINGTON

- Bellevue - AlwaysSomething

- Bremerton/Gig Harbor - mc2010

- Eastern - deadinside08

- Northwestern - Tal

- Seattle - 1SadDude

- Tacoma/Dupont/Ft Lewis/Lacey area - armynurse

- Thurston County - running*on*empty

- Yakima/Tri-Cities area - ArialRose

WEST VIRGINIA

- Beckley area - JustPatty

- Charleston - KeepingDarkness

WISCONSIN

- Central WI - Polly4

- Milwaukee County - BrokenButStrong

- Greater Milwaukee - Land of the Lost

- Northwest - rottenkitty

- Racine - melbourne

- SE - k9lover1

- Southeastern - ajsmom

- Upper - thewifey

WYOMING

- quedagh

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AUSTRALIA

- Anywhere; can't add my exact location as I live in a small town. Can make calls etc - Laura28

- Sydney - inink

CANADA

- AB - Calgary/Southern Alberta - 2EffedUp

- AB - South Calgary - Blackhair

- AB - Edmonton - Librasrock

- AB - Edmonton - ohpuhlease

- AB - Red Deer - trebleclef

- BC - Vancouver - Lighthouse Heart

- Manitoba - closertofine

- ON - Hamilton - lost_in_toronto

- London - sarahm49

- ON - Oakville -Ariel73

- ON - Niagara Region - naive and stupid

- ON - Toronto - lynnm1947

- ON - Toronto - Broken1Again

- ON - Toronto area - uddup

- ON - Toronto area - lied2

- ON - Toronto -brokenandfedup

- ON - general Toronto area - Peaches

- ON - Ottawa - bestbecameworst

- ON - Windsor - kluelesskat

- ON - Windsor - survivor1977

- QC - Montreal - conti

- QC - Montreal & Southwestern Quebec (Town of Chateauguay & valley all the way to US border) - Knowing

- QC - West of Montreal to Ottawa, ON - FightingBack

ENGLAND

- Birmingham & Surrounding area, West Midlands - sadness60

- Southwest - Diva0702

- Northampton to Cambridge, that includes RAF Molesworth, RAF Alconbury, RAF Mildenhall, RAF Lakenheath - RedRaven6500

EUROPE

- Edie

- jolene

FRANCE

- jolene

- south France - onestepforward

GERMANY

- Grafenwoehr / Vilseck - frigidfire86

HUNGARY

- Budapest - budapest

IRELAND

- bestrongforyou

SWEDEN

-(can also do number searches in Norway and Denmark) - IKnowNow

UNITED KINGDOM

- Edie

- howcouldhe1

- England (Southwest) - gulliblelass

- England (Southwest)/London - weimylady

- Midlands - captiva

- Scotland - 32years2day

- UK/Northwest - footies

- Wales (Shropshire, Powys, Ceridigion, and Gwynedd counties. Also possibly Cheshire) - Jomarion

It may be possible for some members to access public records information for various states. You can pm smalltowngirl for more info.

Please send me a pm or post if you want to be added to or deleted from this list and I will update. Thank you and take care.

[This message edited by Sad in AZ at 11:10 AM, November 1st (Sunday)]

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 8:20 PM on Saturday, October 8th, 2011

Bump

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 5:36 AM on Tuesday, October 11th, 2011

Bump; bump

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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2yrs+recovering ( member #31582) posted at 2:58 PM on Wednesday, October 12th, 2011

Please add me to the snoopers list.

I am in Northern/Central NJ.

BS (me)60 FWH 72
Married 35 years
4 children and 3 grandchildren
5 yrs into R.
Now that he has changed and become the man he should have been all along, why should I start over?

posts: 563   ·   registered: Mar. 21st, 2011   ·   location: New Jersey
id 5480763
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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 6:02 AM on Saturday, October 15th, 2011

Thank you 2yrs+recovering and BUMP

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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wanttofeelwhole ( member #31830) posted at 12:30 PM on Saturday, October 15th, 2011

please add me to the list. I'm in suffolk county NY.

Sorry I don't edit the typos
Love is giving someone the power to destroy you...but trusting them not to.-Unknown
For every good reason there is to lie, there is a better reason to tell the truth.-Bo Bennett
Memory is a complicated thing, a rel

posts: 786   ·   registered: Apr. 11th, 2011   ·   location: Sliding down the backside of the rainbow
id 5486174
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frigidfire86 ( member #32324) posted at 2:35 PM on Saturday, October 15th, 2011

Please add me. I'm in Fayetteville, NC.

Me: 34
Him: 35
Married 14 years
Daughter, 13 yrs old
D-Day: 2011

posts: 685   ·   registered: May. 31st, 2011   ·   location: Texas
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bestbecameworst ( member #31507) posted at 5:37 PM on Monday, October 17th, 2011

Please add me I am in Canada:

Ottawa,ON

Me: BS
Together since 1997, married Jan 2010, EA started Feb 2010, PA June 2010
D-day1 Oct 20 2010 / D-day2 Oct 21 2010 and following week / found this site Mar 2011
He didn't do work to reconcile.
DIVORCED in 2014 and HAPPY!

posts: 599   ·   registered: Mar. 14th, 2011
id 5488914
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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 4:35 PM on Tuesday, October 25th, 2011

wanttofeelwhole, frigidfire86

& bestbecameworst: You're all in! Thank you!

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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major misfit ( member #29852) posted at 8:03 AM on Thursday, October 27th, 2011

Please add me. Southeastern Oklahoma. Thanks!

BS....me (now 56)

WS...him (gone)


"There are some that only employ words for the purpose of disguising their thoughts"---Voltaire

posts: 1346   ·   registered: Oct. 14th, 2010   ·   location: oklahoma (native texan)
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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 5:49 AM on Tuesday, November 8th, 2011

Sorry for the delay--you're in, major misfit--thank you!

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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trebleclef ( member #33488) posted at 7:49 AM on Monday, November 28th, 2011

Please add me to the list - I'm in Red Deer, AB, Canada

True remorse isn't followed by a "but".

posts: 1812   ·   registered: Sep. 30th, 2011   ·   location: Alberta
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covergirl20 ( member #32325) posted at 7:43 PM on Wednesday, November 30th, 2011

You can add me. I'm the only one on Northern Lower Michigan.

Will def help anyone I can!

:)

BW 36
WH 40
DS-13, DD-7years DD-6years
D-day 1- 5/39/11 - D-day 2 6/10/15

posts: 312   ·   registered: May. 31st, 2011
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tamarack ( member #14554) posted at 4:08 AM on Monday, December 5th, 2011

You can add me for Colorado. Denver southern suburbs

Me: 44 WH: almost 60, sociopath
OW: 56-year-old nutcase
married 10 years, 2 kids (14 & 15)
DDay: 5/2/07
divorced

"I had no back up plan. Just freefalling till I landed" - TrainerCarrie

posts: 3562   ·   registered: May. 9th, 2007   ·   location: suburbs of Denver, CO
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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 4:55 AM on Monday, December 5th, 2011

I'm finally back online! Thank you trebleclef, covergirl 20 & tamarack!!

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

posts: 25351   ·   registered: Jun. 3rd, 2009   ·   location: Arizona
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purplefinch ( member #32471) posted at 5:16 PM on Friday, December 9th, 2011

I don't see anyone in Western Massachusetts. I can try to help.

Married 28 years, together 32; DD age 28
Me BW: 56
XWH: 58, liar
DDay 6/3/2011
skank-a-saurus: 48 yo FORMER friend of 30 years.
status: Divorced January 25, 2012!!

posts: 676   ·   registered: Jun. 13th, 2011   ·   location: Massachusetts
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 11:43 PM on Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

I'm currently listed for NJ, but we recently moved to Houston, I am in the Northeast quadrant of Houston if anyone needs help. Although I don't quite know my way around just yet.

Don't remove me from NJ as I travel back and forth.

posts: 11268   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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welcome14 ( member #26741) posted at 8:50 PM on Sunday, January 15th, 2012

you can add me if you have need to Clarksville Tn/ Ft Campbell Ky- I work on post and live just over the state line in TN

Bs- me
Someone I used to know- Him
Nothing like a trail of blood to find your way back home- nikki sixx

I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.

posts: 1562   ·   registered: Dec. 16th, 2009   ·   location: clarksville, tn/ Ft Campbell
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 Sad in AZ (original poster member #24239) posted at 1:49 PM on Monday, January 16th, 2012

purplefinch, annb & welcome14: All updated! Thank you.

You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.

Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011

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childofcheater ( member #33887) posted at 8:55 PM on Monday, January 16th, 2012

You can add me to the Buffalo NY area.

Me: 42 yo, him 41Married 19 years together 233 kids: DD15, DD12, DS9DDay 2/9/12 found suspicious text to coworkerStatus: in R, work in progress

posts: 540   ·   registered: Nov. 11th, 2011   ·   location: East Coast
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