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AttemptStrength ( member #27947) posted at 3:44 PM on Monday, April 22nd, 2013

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BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.

posts: 1992   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2010   ·   location: Wisconsin
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 2:09 PM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013

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posts: 11258   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 11:28 PM on Sunday, April 28th, 2013

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 9:22 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2013

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posts: 11258   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 1:01 AM on Thursday, May 9th, 2013

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 8:18 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013

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posts: 11258   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 4:39 PM on Thursday, May 16th, 2013

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posts: 11258   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:03 AM on Friday, May 17th, 2013

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 12:23 AM on Monday, May 27th, 2013

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 4:37 PM on Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

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BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
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jjct ( member #17484) posted at 12:32 PM on Tuesday, June 18th, 2013

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posts: 7269   ·   registered: Dec. 24th, 2007   ·   location: texas
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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 2:49 AM on Sunday, July 14th, 2013

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 8:01 PM on Friday, July 19th, 2013

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 2:15 AM on Thursday, July 25th, 2013

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BS 42
fWS 38 (SurprisinglyOkay)
DsD DS
A whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better.
"Knowing is half the battle"

posts: 2859   ·   registered: Aug. 28th, 2012
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HurtButHopeful? ( member #25144) posted at 1:10 AM on Tuesday, July 30th, 2013

bump for livebythesea

Resources for R:
His Needs Her Needs, by Dr. Willard Harley
Love Busters, by Dr. Willard Harley
(for husbands) Becoming the Ultimate Husband, by Reb Bradley

posts: 1735   ·   registered: Aug. 12th, 2009
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Skan ( member #35812) posted at 6:55 PM on Saturday, August 3rd, 2013

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Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012


posts: 11513   ·   registered: Jun. 11th, 2012   ·   location: So California
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hard_yards ( member #23549) posted at 9:41 AM on Tuesday, August 6th, 2013

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I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

posts: 1383   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2009
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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:13 AM on Saturday, August 10th, 2013

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:48 AM on Monday, August 12th, 2013

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"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."

posts: 5379   ·   registered: Jan. 3rd, 2010   ·   location: Midwest
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mixedintherut ( member #40330) posted at 4:55 PM on Thursday, August 22nd, 2013

Bump. I do wish this was a sticky or a permanent post, so that the new people could find it very easily. I have been here for almost a week and just now seeing it!

DD 1: PA 12/4/09 He spent 2.5 years with OW1
R: 8/31/2012
DD 2: EA 8/16/13
BS: 26
WH: 25
1 young daughter.
Terribly disgusted. He refuses to give up his "friend". Headed towards D.

posts: 138   ·   registered: Aug. 15th, 2013   ·   location: kentucky
id 6458698
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