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Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 4:48 PM on Friday, October 15th, 2010

bumpity bump

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

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CanISurvive ( member #29788) posted at 9:07 AM on Wednesday, October 20th, 2010

Bump #2.

D final 11/25/2011 -- on Black Friday! ;-)

Moved my stats to my Profile; click there for my story.

I am a Phoenix; I may be in the ashes stage at the moment, but I am now actively working on my Rebirth. =)

PS: I edit posts for typos & clarity

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hopefully ( member #29906) posted at 5:48 AM on Saturday, October 23rd, 2010

Dear Serjr,

I am new but have but most of this into place already and I fully intend on using this as my plan of action. This post is perfect for all but especially us Newbies Thank You

Me:45
fWW:41
Kids 3 - 9, 15, 18
DDay : 10/16/2010

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Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 11:42 PM on Tuesday, October 26th, 2010

Buuuuuummmmmmmmmmmmmmmpppppp!

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

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WHATDOIDONEXT ( member #29937) posted at 12:33 AM on Monday, November 1st, 2010

bump for newbies

DDay Sept 12th 2010.
BW 47.
FWH 46 (Penitent95).
Married 5 years
2 DS's 1 & 3 years old.
2 SDD 17 & 19 years old.

As a phoenix rises from the ashes I to shall rise from embers that were once my old life.I shall rise anew. Stronger, wiser.

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knockedsideways ( member #29859) posted at 4:01 PM on Monday, November 1st, 2010

How do you 'Bump"?

Does that mean put it to the front of the forum?

Good article serj.

Never before in my life did I feel so flattened and now this site has given me the strength ( as well as a rock of a friend) to get through this and pick up the pieces of a shattered heart

Me: BW (46)
Him : (F)WH (46)
D-Day 8th June 2010
23years of M (25 together)
2 teenagers

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Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 6:37 PM on Tuesday, November 2nd, 2010

bump

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

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knockedsideways ( member #29859) posted at 11:07 PM on Tuesday, November 2nd, 2010

bump

Me: BW (46)
Him : (F)WH (46)
D-Day 8th June 2010
23years of M (25 together)
2 teenagers

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Jen ( member #26584) posted at 3:18 AM on Wednesday, November 3rd, 2010

newbie bump

Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah

posts: 19991   ·   registered: Dec. 15th, 2009   ·   location: Where's the fucking rainbow ???
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tsol25 ( member #29461) posted at 3:35 PM on Sunday, November 7th, 2010

Bump

me - tsol, that's all for now

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Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 7:46 PM on Sunday, November 7th, 2010

bump

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

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EasyDoesIt ( member #29514) posted at 7:27 AM on Monday, November 8th, 2010

Bumpin' baby I'm a bumpin dude bumpin oh yeah, bumpin

Anything less than full disclosure and total transparency is pure bullshit. WARNING! No emotional pollution allowed.

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wonderingbull ( member #14833) posted at 5:58 PM on Monday, November 8th, 2010

Bump

The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor

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bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 4:19 PM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2010

bump

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 7:22 PM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2010

I am new to the forum, but haave been lurking for quite some time. I want to say thanks already to SerJr, ThriveNotSurvive, Fallen, Wincing, Cee64D and many others you all have great wisdom... I hope I can use all this information and repair my life.

[This message edited by lordhasaplan? at 1:28 PM, November 10th (Wednesday)]

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 7:23 PM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2010

sorry for the repost! Just learning here

[This message edited by lordhasaplan? at 1:24 PM, November 10th (Wednesday)]

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

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hard_yards ( member #23549) posted at 5:40 PM on Thursday, November 11th, 2010

bump


I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right...

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bigpicture3236 ( member #27861) posted at 12:22 PM on Sunday, November 14th, 2010

bump

If you love something and hurt it dearly, then chose not to fix it...you never deserved it in the first place.

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AttemptStrength ( member #27947) posted at 6:18 PM on Monday, November 15th, 2010

bump

BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.

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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 3:47 AM on Wednesday, November 17th, 2010

Bumpin Serjr's wisdom for the newbies

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 4910193
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