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 truthsetmefree (original poster member #7168) posted at 4:35 PM on Monday, January 10th, 2022

So…this last month I finally decided to get online and do a little "shopping around". It wasn’t the first time I had looked, in fact had been considering it ever since my marriage ended; I just couldn’t seem to make myself get serious about it. I’ve surprisingly realized that I’m quite happy on my own…but there were just some aspects I was still missing - one in particular.

Admittedly, his description acknowledged that he had some imperfections…didn’t say a lot about them, pretty vague actually. But given the stated conditions, I wasn’t expected to make any kind of commitment on the front end. He was more than happy to let me take it slow the first few months to see how I felt about him.

When I finally met him in person, he was perfect! Those acknowledged imperfections were so small, had been way overstated. I think it was mostly based on how someone in his prior relationship had described him…maybe someone that didn’t really understand his worth. Nonetheless, he’s strong and handsome…and as a plus, he’s a beast in my kitchen (in a good way). It took me a little while to work through some of the initial challenges, figure out some of his minutia, but as I do, the relationship just continues to get better and better. I love him more and more with each passing day. And my friends and family think he is awesome too! He’s already most definitely a keeper!

And that one particular thing that I had been missing? OMG…he makes the BEST cup of java I have ever had. It’s ecstasy every morning…and sometimes even again later in the day. blush I held on for years with the EX because he was always so good about making me coffee each morning. If only I had known how much better was out there!

He originates from Breville and identifies as a BES870XL and I found him in the warehouse deals section on a well known online site. The only problem I have now is - and why I am posting - I just need a pet name for him.

Any suggestions? smile

Hope has two beautiful daughters; their names are Anger and Courage. Anger at the way things are, and Courage to see that they do not remain as they are. ~ Augustine of Hippo

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ArkLaMiss ( member #14918) posted at 6:05 PM on Monday, January 10th, 2022

How about Mr. Warehouse? Or Mr. Good Deal? There's also Mr. Coffee

Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

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countrydirt ( member #55758) posted at 6:15 PM on Monday, January 10th, 2022

Barista Baby!!

3 adult sons
Married 32 years. DDay1 - June 2016, DDay 2 - April 2017, Final DDay - May 2020. Divorced - January 2021

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EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 1:31 PM on Tuesday, January 11th, 2022

Those acknowledged imperfections were so small, had been way overstated.

Part of dating is all about finding out each others flaws so you can decide if they are dealbreakers for you. We all have them.

I am glad you are enjoying your new brew! wink

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 truthsetmefree (original poster member #7168) posted at 2:22 PM on Tuesday, January 11th, 2022

EK - I’m just thankful that so far the flaws only seem to be surface level! smile

All - Thanks for playing with me here!! grin

Hope has two beautiful daughters; their names are Anger and Courage. Anger at the way things are, and Courage to see that they do not remain as they are. ~ Augustine of Hippo

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JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 4:34 AM on Wednesday, January 12th, 2022

You had me going lol

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Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 3:16 PM on Wednesday, January 12th, 2022

"He originates from Breville and identifies as a BES870XL and I found him in the warehouse deals section"

Funny thing. My housemate and I (both formerly BS es) are looking for that one thing too :)

I think you may have helped me narrow down my target 🎯 machine. I had been toying around with a more exotic Italian or possibly the classic (but perhaps more flawed) Kitchen Aid or the more mid century modern but pricey model.

You made my day laugh laugh laugh

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Want2BHappyAgain ( member #45088) posted at 12:17 AM on Thursday, January 13th, 2022

laugh laugh laugh

A "perfect marriage" is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.

With God ALL things are possible (Matthew 19:26)

I AM happy again...It CAN happen!!!

From respect comes great love...sassylee

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leafields ( member #63517) posted at 1:57 PM on Friday, January 14th, 2022

I've been chuckling over this all week. I think his name should be Joe. He's the best Joe around. LOL

Lea
Me: BW
Married 34 years, 3 DS
DDay #1: March 26, 2018, DDay #2 8/26/2019
Filed for D: 11/16/2020
D Final: 2/25/2021

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