Well, the melt down from the XW over the IRS refund money finally happened. [I agreed to give her $2000 for the kids deductions. She owed me $1325 in back medical bills for the kids. I sent her a check for $675 with the appropriate documentation]
She kept threatening me and demanding I respond to her. I finally told her that I would love to go to court with the court order that she is to pay me 21% of the kids' medical bills and that she owed me $1325; I've got all the documentation.
And...that she should focus more on staying out of jail (she has 4 DUI and 3 driving without a license charges pending against her) vs. threatening to take me to court.
And...that maybe instead of worrying about what I'm doing, she should get a job and help support her kids - call/see her DS (who lives with me), give middle DD money for food instead of making her buy it with her own money; pay something toward oldest DD's college bills (I pay everything).
Yeah, I poked the bear. But she's 5h away, and can't do anything to me.
So I sent that, then went to bed. I woke up to this (below) this morning. I'm putting this here for yall to get a look into the (broken) mind of an alcoholic NPD/BPD. Enjoy.
(Note: She used talk to text, so you might have to parse some of the wording; it is unedited - that is exactly what she sent me (except for names - those I redacted); each paragraph break is a separate text she sent.)
Wow are you done being really rude. That's fine I'll see you in court
I want to see [DS]🏈👾 every fucking time I can but you have put so many parameters on it I can't give you great time to see you in court
I am sick and tired of you trying to control me and hold shit over my head you have no right to arbitrarily just decide to take money away you don't get to do that asshole welcome to the real world want to step up to the big game let's play
Used to be able to control me guess what you don't get to do that anymore asshole you made a verbal agreement you can't just go ahead arbitrarily decide I know I want to do something else I've already spoken to both my lawyers and both of them said I am in the right and you are in the wrong so let's go to court cost you more not me
Call me a bad parent one more time because trust me I've seen the text in the things you said to my children and I would love to show judge how much you tell my children I am the narcissist and I'm the bad parent I'm sorry have you forgotten how many times I had to step between you and my children protect them you want to play let's play motherfucker
And you really want to go there the only reason you talk to your mothers because of me. It is your crackers fucking cheap ass 52-year-old girlfriend know how you really are does she want to see the pictures of me with a blackeye that you gave me fuck you let's go
Do you have the upper hand you're a fucking loser I made you the man you are and I will fucking take you down you piece of shit you came from nothing and you'll go right back to nothing. Your joke people laugh that you always have always well what time they didn't laugh at you was when I was with you
I really get to me this time if you know what [WornDown] you're wrong you didn't ask me then talk you didn't say anything and I'm right you want to go to court will go to court or you'll be found wrong and I'll be found right you know how I know because I asked both [Family Lawyer] and [Criminal Lawyer] so if you want to waste your money that's fine because you'll pay the fees not me
The other thing I love [DD's] graduation you came over my mom hugged you my whole family talk to you you're a piece of shit family when even look at me wow that's a lot of class oh wait that's right my family has class your family none
Are you and the next time your mom wants the same thing about me having an affair with her and help her in the house with my children and their shit fuck [My mom's wife] will you and your friends right there nice try bitch
What a fucking hole now let's see I really did you talk to your mother as I talk to you you explain your mom is your mom you have to like her why Sabi have to love her and yet she treats me like fucking shit really search the reason your mother talk to you is because of me wow
Can't even stop I hate you so fucking much by the way can you can you tell your children what you do and say what you do and watch what happens just watch what happens I'm not stupid
Yeah I think just instead of concentrating on hitting me just give me the fucking money you owe me and not let your gap tooth 52-year-old fat ugly girlfriend suck your dick asshole don't worry about what I'm doing in my life do you do her thing but you can't because you're still stuck on having to control me
But the truth is [WornDown] all this bullshit between you and I just want to doesn't matter we had an agreement you diss honor the agreement you didn't ask or discuss it you just did arbitrarily which means you are in violation of a quota "verbal contract/agreement and I'm going to win in court so I'm gonna offer you this real quick yo me 1400 give me 1000 call it even and be done otherwise will go to court yo lose I win you'll have to pay the extra money to come here to go to court you never once said a word about taking any money out of that there's no anything saying that was gonna happen so you will lose the case I suggest you take my offer right now saying settling for thousand dollars send it to me and be done otherwise will go to court for the 1400 I'll bring my mom up here for the 20 525,000
And you're probably going to lose both but the honest truth is [WornDown] you didn't even mention taking money out of mine so you're definitely an allusion only the 14th out 100 so I would definitely take my offer them to send me 1000 and being done because I won't hunt already told me you'll lose