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Edie ( member #26133) posted at 9:16 AM on Friday, January 13th, 2012

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Maybe a long walk in the Hindu Kush would do it?
BW (me) 52
FWS 55
Together 29 years; 2 kids 15 & 12
Dday Dec 08 (confessed) R'd.

posts: 6384   ·   registered: Nov. 9th, 2009   ·   location: Europe
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bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 6:25 AM on Sunday, January 15th, 2012

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DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

posts: 6172   ·   registered: Dec. 1st, 2008   ·   location: Texas
id 5638180
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Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 1:37 AM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2012

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The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

posts: 2740   ·   registered: Nov. 30th, 2008   ·   location: Ohio
id 5643115
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Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 7:13 PM on Wednesday, January 18th, 2012

Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well

"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces

posts: 7279   ·   registered: Apr. 30th, 2010   ·   location: NC
id 5644317
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 11:35 PM on Friday, January 20th, 2012

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posts: 11269   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
id 5648417
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AttemptStrength ( member #27947) posted at 6:05 AM on Monday, January 23rd, 2012

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BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.

posts: 1992   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2010   ·   location: Wisconsin
id 5651826
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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 4:30 PM on Tuesday, January 24th, 2012

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BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5654431
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 11:02 PM on Thursday, January 26th, 2012

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posts: 11269   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 3:36 PM on Sunday, January 29th, 2012

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 8:36 PM on Thursday, February 2nd, 2012

posts: 11269   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 6:46 PM on Tuesday, February 7th, 2012

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posts: 11269   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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wonderingbull ( member #14833) posted at 7:02 PM on Friday, February 10th, 2012

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The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...

James Taylor

posts: 6054   ·   registered: Jun. 1st, 2007   ·   location: A better place
id 5685248
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LisaP ( member #15088) posted at 1:17 AM on Monday, February 13th, 2012

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Me BS

Divorced!

~Feel your emotions, but control your behavior~ Unknown

posts: 2200   ·   registered: Jun. 23rd, 2007   ·   location: Oregon
id 5689016
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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 1:07 AM on Thursday, February 16th, 2012

BS- Me (45)
D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
Currently in R.
Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

posts: 2104   ·   registered: Nov. 10th, 2010
id 5695251
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annb ( member #22386) posted at 3:05 PM on Wednesday, February 22nd, 2012

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posts: 11269   ·   registered: Jan. 10th, 2009   ·   location: Northeast
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the_goat ( new member #33916) posted at 8:00 PM on Wednesday, February 22nd, 2012

OP is still great advice

Her--WW, OM a coworker. Both got fired for it
Me--BH
I love my wife, but I don't know if I can continue like this...

posts: 19   ·   registered: Nov. 14th, 2011   ·   location: NC
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sandy78 ( member #34958) posted at 2:22 PM on Thursday, March 1st, 2012

Thank you for this...I feel like I need to keep reading it over and over and over again.

Me: 34
WH: 35
DS: Born 11/2011
D-Day: 2/26/2012
Divorcing...

If someone wants to be with you, there's nothing you can do to make them go. If someone doesn't want to be with you, there's nothing you can do to make them stay.

posts: 79   ·   registered: Feb. 29th, 2012
id 5720061
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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 7:22 PM on Friday, March 2nd, 2012

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posts: 51033   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2011
id 5722697
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jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 4:11 PM on Saturday, March 3rd, 2012

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posts: 51033   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2011
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AttemptStrength ( member #27947) posted at 6:07 PM on Wednesday, March 7th, 2012

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BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS

I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.

posts: 1992   ·   registered: Mar. 16th, 2010   ·   location: Wisconsin
id 5730586
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