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 Shehawk (original poster member #68741) posted at 4:02 AM on Wednesday, November 19th, 2025

"There are patient navigators available, so be sure to ask for help. You don't have to bear all of the burden."
Thanks for reminding me. It’s not easy. The surgery is scheduled for the end of the year. So for now, it’s just waiting and living the best life we can until then.

We signed up for therapeutic riding. I am finally getting my (trigger alert for trauma DV and veteran family suicide survivorship) trauma from the loss of a close family member to veteran suicide when I was a young age (and more of the DV and work-related trauma) treated.

I am off of medications for physical issues and was on none for any other issues (of course with medical consent and supervision). My heart now checks out as apparently normal. The advanced Lyme disease appears to be in remission.

Coincidence?

I am 💯 NC with exwh.

The prayers, messages, encouragement and mojo being sent my way from SI ers has been much appreciated.

Even my worst day now with what we are facing is better than my best day previously living with an active unrepentant cheater.

Wishing everyone much peace and healing this holiday season.

"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!

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