YouCanHaveThePettyLiar (original poster new member #87450) posted at 10:15 AM on Monday, June 8th, 2026
I'm wondering how many have told your WS's AP's spouse and how it went?
Thanks!
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:34 PM on Monday, June 8th, 2026
I was not told, even though OBS was told about the A (and that it would be ongoing) 10 days before I found out. It's been 15 years, and I'm still pissed at OBS.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
d-day - 12/22/2010 Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.