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Betrayed Menz Thread - Part 34

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Notthevictem posted 9/29/2020 15:24 PM

Been better, but haven't we all?

LosferWords posted 9/30/2020 13:11 PM

Unexpected turn of events. My attorney and paralegal were trying to get an earlier court date for me. They emailed me last night. I guess the judge signed off and rubber stamped everything. I am officially divorced, as of yesterday, on my 20th anniversary.

sisoon posted 9/30/2020 13:56 PM

How are you feeling? Are you ready for 'congratulations'?

I ask because I'm projecting: D being final on the 20th anniversary would be bittersweet for me.

I'm glad it didn't drag on. Once you know what you want, the quicker you get it, the better.

LosferWords posted 9/30/2020 14:01 PM

Thanks, sisoon. The fact that I moved out almost three years ago, and my d-days being almost 10 years ago means this has dragged on for a bit.

I will take congratulations in the context of moving forward. I do have mixed feelings, as I will always feel some form of love for her. I mean... I didn't marry her because I wanted to divorce her, right? And yes. A bittersweet moment for sure.

Looking forward to moving on and forging the rest of my life as a single guy. Going to be interesting!

steadychevy posted 9/30/2020 20:28 PM

Congratulations, Losfer, and I'm sorry. I understand what you're saying. Not something to celebrate really but new reality. I never wanted to be divorced but it was the only solution for me. Onward and upward from here.

LosferWords posted 9/30/2020 22:12 PM

Thanks, Steady. I do need to find some way to celebrate. Not out of vindication, but because I can move on. I'm glad you get it, and I appreciate your congrats. Thank you! Onward and upward for sure!

william posted 10/1/2020 23:30 PM

hi all,
back again after a break from the site. just needed time to get my mind straight, recover, and figure out a path forward.

Notthevictem posted 10/2/2020 00:27 AM

well, good thing covid is keeping everybody in doors, cause i don't think the single women in your state are properly prepared for a single losfer.

Shit is about to get real.

Notthevictem posted 10/2/2020 00:28 AM

got a path forward william?

william posted 10/2/2020 21:28 PM

yeah I realized I wouldn't ever trust her again, I detached and did the 180, and had the divorce finalised in mid August.

whatever path I'm on I'm on it without her. it feels weird in some ways but is also a massive load off of me. I feel younger, I'm sleeping better, I'm eating healthier and better, and I'm happier.


Incarnate posted 10/3/2020 10:54 AM

I could have sworn I typed up a reply here, but now I'm late getting up for work so I'm rushing my morning. I'll check in later, y'all. Hope you're all doing well.

LosferWords posted 10/3/2020 17:33 PM

Good to see you, william. Looks like you are about a month ahead of me. Glad to see some weight has lifted off your shoulders!

LosferWords posted 10/3/2020 17:36 PM

well, good thing covid is keeping everybody in doors, cause i don't think the single women in your state are properly prepared for a single losfer.

Slow down there, NTV!

My first weekend as a single man has so far consisted of a bucket of KFC, some beer, and my TV. Not moving too far from my recliner this weekend.

william posted 10/3/2020 21:54 PM

thanks.
nice to see you too.
just needed a break to get my mind sorted out and catch my breath. this site can get grim dark sometimes...

what do you have planned AFTER the divorce loafer? not like long term plans but going to go out and do anything just for yourself? take a hike, get that 'whatever', sleep in?

[This message edited by william at 10:14 PM, October 3rd (Saturday)]

steadychevy posted 10/4/2020 16:16 PM

It's been a while since you've been here, William. Nice to see you again. I wondered what had happened. I see now. Sorry about the outcome. My divorce was final in April. I wondered if this wouldn't be the result with you. Welcome back.

Tred posted 10/4/2020 18:24 PM

My first weekend as a single man has so far consisted of a bucket of KFC, some beer, and my TV.

Los, I'm certain that checks a box for a lot of women somewhere. If your dating profile was just that you'd weed out a lot of riff raff that just ain't ready for that high life.

Unhinged posted 10/5/2020 07:50 AM

Losfer, whether your D calls for congratulations or commiserations, I'm wishing you the best, brother.

LosferWords posted 10/5/2020 14:22 PM

Los, I'm certain that checks a box for a lot of women somewhere. If your dating profile was just that you'd weed out a lot of riff raff that just ain't ready for that high life.

Do you think if I were wearing coveralls that would round out the package? Going for high class here. Appreciate the advice, kind sir.

LosferWords posted 10/5/2020 14:24 PM

Losfer, whether your D calls for congratulations or commiserations, I'm wishing you the best, brother.

I will take both, Hinged! Thank you. I appreciate the kind words. Gonna be alright. Gonna be more than alright!

sisoon posted 10/6/2020 10:26 AM

I'll add my late congratulations and commiseration.

No honest person gets M to get D'ed, but when D is right, it gives you freedom and starts a new adventure, IMO. That's pretty good, also IMO.

Still, change is a PITA....

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