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FaithFool posted 8/7/2019 22:38 PM

I'm strict NC with the xfucknut because it's always been all about him and I have no time for that nonsense.

Ten years out now and he has strict orders, but who leaves a message on my answering machine the day before my birthday today? Yep, yooooo guessed it....

He keeps trying to do the old Cricket Bypass (second time in a few months I've had a message about some thing or other). Never was a very good listener that one.

I may just change my numbers one day just to spite him lol.

Onward.

Superesse posted 8/7/2019 23:22 PM

Happy Birthday to FF,
Happy Birthday to YOU, you fabulous woman!

So, fans send fanmail....look at it like that.
Hope you get so many more birthday messages that you cannot even keep track of all the good wishes on your day! That might help the most, eh? 😀

FaithFool posted 8/8/2019 00:33 AM

Aww thanks darlin'! It's tomorrow and I have a fab girls weekend planned.

BobPar posted 8/8/2019 11:46 AM

Happy Birthday

hardtimesinlife posted 8/8/2019 23:07 PM

Happy Happy Happy Birthday, FF

JanaGreen posted 8/9/2019 08:53 AM

Happy birthday!!!

Fantayworld posted 8/9/2019 09:46 AM

Happy Birthday FaithFool!

Good question, why? Why is he contacting you now after all these years? Is your ex NPD? I worry that my xfucknut might try this some day. Is he hoovering? Low on supply?

It's sounds like you don't let it get to you.

FaithFool posted 8/13/2019 01:02 AM

I think there are some narc tendencies in his personality but mostly he's just a selfishly clueless person with a little ADD.

Conversation with him was always a one way street. He's one of those people who just waits for you to finish talking so he can start talking about himself, there is no listening lol. So annoying.

Oh and I was the Love of His Life and Always Will
Be, so that birthday reminder will probably never die until I do...

[This message edited by FaithFool at 1:03 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)]

deena04 posted 8/13/2019 09:38 AM

Happy birthday. May your day be as great as his pain at losing you!! Actually, May your day be better just in case he’s unable to feel pain.

InnerLight posted 8/18/2019 20:56 PM

Hi FaithFool, Happy Belated Birthday.
Your names for your XWH always make me laugh!

steadychevy posted 8/24/2019 18:10 PM

Just saw this, FaithFool. I don't get to all of the threads very often. Happy Birthday, belated.

I don't know if I ever read the ending about your classes you were taking where his AP also attended. I think it might have been at the Banff School of Fine Arts. I believe she was ending up leaving the room or area you were in but I can't remember any more.

Anyway. Interesting after 10 years, even. Again, Happy Birthday.

ETA: SuperFreak Fucknut. It has a ring to it.

[This message edited by steadychevy at 6:11 PM, August 24th (Saturday)]

FaithFool posted 8/24/2019 22:08 PM

Thanks everyone! Steadychevy yes, Fuckwitch was there the whole three weeks, pretty much every damn day, but seeing her fugly mug never ruined my appetite so I call that progress.

I was sorely tempted to pick up the phone and interrupt his little message to tell him that, but I choose to rise above and not give him any oxygen at all.

I know he lurks on my social media and I do make a point to make the sooooper happy musical success posts public, so he can obviously see what he's missing. Because I rock and he just doesn't.

Onward!

[This message edited by FaithFool at 10:09 PM, August 24th (Saturday)]

SerJR posted 8/25/2019 06:21 AM

There's always that one turd that just doesn't seem to wanna flush

Good for you for not giving him any mind space. You absolutely do rock! And happy (belated) birthday!

Chrysalis123 posted 8/25/2019 18:25 PM

Happy belated birthday!!

And this just cracks me up....

He keeps trying to do the old Cricket Bypass