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FaithFool (original poster member #20150) posted at 4:38 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
I'm strict NC with the xfucknut because it's always been all about him and I have no time for that nonsense.
Ten years out now and he has strict orders, but who leaves a message on my answering machine the day before my birthday today? Yep, yooooo guessed it....
He keeps trying to do the old Cricket Bypass (second time in a few months I've had a message about some thing or other). Never was a very good listener that one.
I may just change my numbers one day just to spite him lol.
Onward.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Superesse ( member #60731) posted at 5:22 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
Happy Birthday to FF,
Happy Birthday to YOU, you fabulous woman!
So, fans send fanmail....look at it like that.
Hope you get so many more birthday messages that you cannot even keep track of all the good wishes on your day! That might help the most, eh? 😀
FaithFool (original poster member #20150) posted at 6:33 AM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
Aww thanks darlin'! It's tomorrow and I have a fab girls weekend planned. 
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
BobPar ( member #62993) posted at 5:46 PM on Thursday, August 8th, 2019
Happy Birthday 
DDay 1 (AP1) and 2 (AP2) 2015 DDay 3 (AP 3) and 4 (AP4) 2016There was some overlap with 3 and 4)False R 2016Suspect more from exWW
hardtimesinlife ( member #10468) posted at 5:07 AM on Friday, August 9th, 2019
Happy Happy Happy Birthday, FF
Ddays 2004 & 2007
I cut my losses mid 2013
Feeling happier every day :)
JanaGreen ( member #29341) posted at 2:53 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2019
Fantayworld ( member #52756) posted at 3:46 PM on Friday, August 9th, 2019
Happy Birthday FaithFool!
Good question, why? Why is he contacting you now after all these years? Is your ex NPD? I worry that my xfucknut might try this some day. Is he hoovering? Low on supply?
It's sounds like you don't let it get to you.
FaithFool (original poster member #20150) posted at 7:02 AM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2019
I think there are some narc tendencies in his personality but mostly he's just a selfishly clueless person with a little ADD.
Conversation with him was always a one way street. He's one of those people who just waits for you to finish talking so he can start talking about himself, there is no listening lol. So annoying. 
Oh and I was the Love of His Life and Always Will
Be, so that birthday reminder will probably never die until I do... 
[This message edited by FaithFool at 1:03 AM, August 13th (Tuesday)]
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
deena04 ( member #41741) posted at 3:38 PM on Tuesday, August 13th, 2019
Happy birthday. May your day be as great as his pain at losing you!! Actually, May your day be better just in case he’s unable to feel pain.
Me FBS 40s, Him XWS older than me (lovemywife4ever), D, He cheated before M, forgot to tell me. I’m free and loving life.
InnerLight ( member #19946) posted at 2:56 AM on Monday, August 19th, 2019
Hi FaithFool, Happy Belated Birthday.
Your names for your XWH always make me laugh!
BS, 64 yearsD-day 6-2-08D after 20 years together
The journey from Armageddon to Amazing Life happens one step at a time. Don't ever give up!
steadychevy ( member #42608) posted at 12:10 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2019
Just saw this, FaithFool. I don't get to all of the threads very often. Happy Birthday, belated.
I don't know if I ever read the ending about your classes you were taking where his AP also attended. I think it might have been at the Banff School of Fine Arts. I believe she was ending up leaving the room or area you were in but I can't remember any more.
Anyway. Interesting after 10 years, even. Again, Happy Birthday.
ETA: SuperFreak Fucknut. It has a ring to it.
[This message edited by steadychevy at 6:11 PM, August 24th (Saturday)]
BH(me)72(now); XWW 64; M 42 yrsDDay1-01/09/13;DDay2-26/10/13;DDay3-19/12/13;DDay4-21/01/14LTA-09/02-06/06? OM - COW 4 years; "dates" w/3 lovers post engagement;ONS w/stranger post commitment, lies, lies, liesSeparated 23/09/2017; D 16/03/2020
FaithFool (original poster member #20150) posted at 4:08 AM on Sunday, August 25th, 2019
Thanks everyone! Steadychevy yes, Fuckwitch was there the whole three weeks, pretty much every damn day, but seeing her fugly mug never ruined my appetite so I call that progress.
I was sorely tempted to pick up the phone and interrupt his little message to tell him that, but I choose to rise above and not give him any oxygen at all.
I know he lurks on my social media and I do make a point to make the sooooper happy musical success posts public, so he can obviously see what he's missing. Because I rock and he just doesn't.
Onward!
[This message edited by FaithFool at 10:09 PM, August 24th (Saturday)]
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
SerJR ( member #14993) posted at 12:21 PM on Sunday, August 25th, 2019
There's always that one turd that just doesn't seem to wanna flush
Good for you for not giving him any mind space. You absolutely do rock! And happy (belated) birthday! 
Me: BH - Happily remarried.
Hope is never lost. It exists within you - it is real. It is not a force in and of itself - it is something that you create with every thought, action, and choice you make. It is a gift that you create for yourself.
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 12:25 AM on Monday, August 26th, 2019
Happy belated birthday!!
And this just cracks me up....
He keeps trying to do the old Cricket Bypass
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
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