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What do you call someone who supported the affair

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 Gottagetthrough (original poster member #27325) posted at 7:41 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

I’m looking for a one word definition of “person who supports adulterer”. Is there one?

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FEEL ( member #57673) posted at 7:50 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

Supporter

The truth is the truth even if you are the only one who believes it. A lie is a lie, regardless of how many people believe it.

Forgiveness - giving up the hope that things could have been any different in the past.

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ARock ( new member #69406) posted at 8:07 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

Traitor, enabler, enemy, collaborator, abettor, back-stabber, saboteur...

Lots of choices. All of them pejorative. I kind of like saboteur.

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Booyah ( member #60124) posted at 8:07 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

Unless you're doing a crossword puzzle one word won't do.

How about GUTLESS LYING PIECE OF SHIT COWARD.

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Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 8:09 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

Scum

BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"

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thatcantbetrue ( member #59557) posted at 8:13 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

Thing is, it's rather impolite....

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Candyman66 ( member #52535) posted at 8:14 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

I'd call them 2 things; Asshole and GONE!!!

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firenze ( member #66522) posted at 8:27 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

In general, scumbag. If they enabled your own WS's affair, enemy.

Me: BH, 27 on DDay
Her: WW, 29 on DDay
DDay: Nov 2015
Divorced.

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sickofsurviving ( member #52308) posted at 8:33 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

One word. Trash.

BS-me 54
WH 56
Married 2004

4 DDs 35,30,26,25
Sexting affair with his 1st cousin 2007-2008 maybe
D-Day 8-8-15
Married

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AbandonedGuy ( member #66456) posted at 8:41 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

"Collaborator" has that great historical subtext of treason.

EmancipatedFella, formerly AbandonedGuy

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The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 8:58 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

Definitely not a friend.

Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.

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allusions ( member #25376) posted at 9:04 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

Co-conspirator.

You can apologize over and over, but if your actions don't change, your words become meaningless.

Behind every crazy bitch is a sweet girl who just got tired of being lied to.

I've found the key to happiness: Stay away from assholes.

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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 9:11 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

douchecanoe

fuckwit

POS

Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.

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Jorge ( member #61424) posted at 9:12 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

fuck head

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numb&dumb ( member #28542) posted at 9:15 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

Accessory after the fact : )

Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.

Bring it, life. I am ready for you.

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BetrayedPR77 ( member #69207) posted at 10:09 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

Benedict Arnold

Me- BH (b. 1977)
She - WW (b. 1981)
Together since 2001, married in 2005
LTA - 7 years - Double Betrayal
DDay - 10/03/2018
DDay 2 - 01/05/2019 (learn the true length of the A)

"Not my circus, not my monkeys"

Status: Next stop: Divo

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Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 10:36 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019

enemy

Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver

Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie

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Lieswearmedown ( member #61335) posted at 2:10 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019

Crapweasel

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Adlham ( member #53358) posted at 2:57 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019

DeadToMe

That's one word, right?

There is NO need to have that “one last conversation” with a toxic individual in your life.” The closure will come when you look deeper inside yourself. It’s not your job to fix someone when they are unwilling to fix themselves.

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cheatstroke ( member #67708) posted at 3:02 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019

proof-that-evolution-sometimes-works-in-reverse

I think that's one word. ;-)

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