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Gottagetthrough (original poster member #27325) posted at 7:41 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
I’m looking for a one word definition of “person who supports adulterer”. Is there one?
FEEL ( member #57673) posted at 7:50 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
The truth is the truth even if you are the only one who believes it. A lie is a lie, regardless of how many people believe it.
Forgiveness - giving up the hope that things could have been any different in the past.
ARock ( new member #69406) posted at 8:07 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
Traitor, enabler, enemy, collaborator, abettor, back-stabber, saboteur...
Lots of choices. All of them pejorative. I kind of like saboteur.
Booyah ( member #60124) posted at 8:07 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
Unless you're doing a crossword puzzle one word won't do.
How about GUTLESS LYING PIECE OF SHIT COWARD.
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 8:09 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
thatcantbetrue ( member #59557) posted at 8:13 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
Thing is, it's rather impolite....
Candyman66 ( member #52535) posted at 8:14 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
I'd call them 2 things; Asshole and GONE!!!
firenze ( member #66522) posted at 8:27 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
In general, scumbag. If they enabled your own WS's affair, enemy.
Me: BH, 27 on DDay
Her: WW, 29 on DDay
DDay: Nov 2015
Divorced.
sickofsurviving ( member #52308) posted at 8:33 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
BS-me 54
WH 56
Married 2004
4 DDs 35,30,26,25
Sexting affair with his 1st cousin 2007-2008 maybe
D-Day 8-8-15
Married
AbandonedGuy ( member #66456) posted at 8:41 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
"Collaborator" has that great historical subtext of treason.
EmancipatedFella, formerly AbandonedGuy
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 8:58 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
allusions ( member #25376) posted at 9:04 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
You can apologize over and over, but if your actions don't change, your words become meaningless.
Behind every crazy bitch is a sweet girl who just got tired of being lied to.
I've found the key to happiness: Stay away from assholes.
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 9:11 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Jorge ( member #61424) posted at 9:12 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
numb&dumb ( member #28542) posted at 9:15 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
Accessory after the fact : )
Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.
Bring it, life. I am ready for you.
BetrayedPR77 ( member #69207) posted at 10:09 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
Me- BH (b. 1977)
She - WW (b. 1981)
Together since 2001, married in 2005
LTA - 7 years - Double Betrayal
DDay - 10/03/2018
DDay 2 - 01/05/2019 (learn the true length of the A)
"Not my circus, not my monkeys"
Status: Next stop: Divo
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 10:36 PM on Monday, April 29th, 2019
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Lieswearmedown ( member #61335) posted at 2:10 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
Adlham ( member #53358) posted at 2:57 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
DeadToMe
That's one word, right?
There is NO need to have that “one last conversation” with a toxic individual in your life.” The closure will come when you look deeper inside yourself. It’s not your job to fix someone when they are unwilling to fix themselves.
cheatstroke ( member #67708) posted at 3:02 AM on Tuesday, April 30th, 2019
proof-that-evolution-sometimes-works-in-reverse
I think that's one word. ;-)
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