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Lalagirl (original poster member #14576) posted at 5:59 PM on Tuesday, October 2nd, 2018
Site was down for awhile and I waz sad and anxious 
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
latebloomer45 ( member #18021) posted at 6:04 PM on Tuesday, October 2nd, 2018
Me too! I literally just renewed my premium membership THIS MORNING.....
[This message edited by latebloomer45 at 12:05 PM, October 2nd (Tuesday)]
Me: BS 56
Him: FWS 58
Married 32 years
Son-26 Daughter (Who Came out as trans, so now Son)-23,
D-Day #1 12/11/2007
D-Day #2 5/23/2008 fucking trickle truth!
Whatever Threnody said, I concur.
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 6:46 PM on Tuesday, October 2nd, 2018
I always think I am banned when that happens.
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
Lalagirl (original poster member #14576) posted at 7:15 PM on Tuesday, October 2nd, 2018
I always think I am banned when that happens.
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
PlanC ( member #47500) posted at 8:12 PM on Tuesday, October 2nd, 2018
I figured I was banned, too! Made me certainly appreciate MH even more.
BS 50; xWW. 4 children.
DD 1: April 2013, confessed ONS June 2012
DD 2: March 2014, confessed affair August 2012 through March 2013
DD 3: October 2015, involuntarily confessed 5 additional ONS starting August 2014 through November 2014 (manic)
traicionada ( member #10310) posted at 2:36 AM on Wednesday, October 3rd, 2018
Ha! I was at worked and almost asked my IT minions to look into it
Real love is a CHOICE, NOT a feeling...
WhoTheBleep ( member #49504) posted at 2:43 AM on Wednesday, October 3rd, 2018
I always think I am banned when that happens.
Hahahaaaa! Me too! I was quickly mentally scanning my recent posts trying to figure out who I offended.
Once, the site went down right after I laid into a OW still actively in her affair. I was very, um, assertive in my disapproval. It was in General, so I thought I was good. I even reported her (and myself) to staff. I received a response that staff would investigate. Then the site went down for hours. I had a physical reaction. I was crushed. I thought I was banned. I didn't even eceive a warning, or a message. I just was cut off. I was sad and depressed for hours. Later that night I was able to log in.
I can't describe my relief. Yeah, I like this place. I do.
I believe we have two lives: the one we learn with, and the one we live with after that. --The Natural
Greeneyesbluezy ( member #58158) posted at 3:28 AM on Wednesday, October 3rd, 2018
Lol it was down for me for the morning!! I checked back later and it wanted me to log in but then wouldn’t let me in anyway.
Yup, banned. Dammit. What did i do?
Ohhhhh, ok back love, I’m in, thank God, I’m not banned lol.
Crazy shit feelings.
Stop right there, I already don't give a fuck.
latebloomer45 ( member #18021) posted at 10:36 AM on Wednesday, October 3rd, 2018
Apparently we all have a prohibitive conscience. Which my sister calls "being raised Catholic". (But pretty sure other religions make good use of guilt as well). We assume the worst and involve ourselves in unknown situations....
Thank you MH!
Me: BS 56
Him: FWS 58
Married 32 years
Son-26 Daughter (Who Came out as trans, so now Son)-23,
D-Day #1 12/11/2007
D-Day #2 5/23/2008 fucking trickle truth!
Whatever Threnody said, I concur.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 3:20 PM on Wednesday, October 3rd, 2018
I didn't think I was banned cuz I'm confident in the moderation team to inform me if I break the rules. 
However, I did panic as to how I am going to follow all of the stories I follow. I need to know what's going on!!! And what am I going to read all day without the site?? I did consider that maybe MH decided to stop running the site. No idea what I'll do if that happens.
So glad it was only down for a short time.
Failure is success if we learn from it.
thatbpguy ( member #58540) posted at 10:52 PM on Wednesday, October 3rd, 2018
It allowed me to get some work done...
ME: BH Her: WW DDay 1, R; DDay 2, R; DDay 3, I left; Divorced Remarried to a wonderful woman
"There are far, far better things ahead than any we leave behind." C.S. Lewis
As a dog returns to his vomit, so a fool repeats his folly...
hopefulkate ( member #47752) posted at 3:58 AM on Thursday, October 4th, 2018
Ummmm so if you saw my post and then the site went down..yeah...totally thought I was banned. So happy to see I wasn’t! (Even if I can’t always come here. Dang I love you peeps!!!!!)
Lalagirl (original poster member #14576) posted at 2:51 PM on Thursday, October 4th, 2018
It allowed me to get some work done...
yeah, me too - work I didn't feel like doing
2025: Me-59 FWH-61 Married 41 years grown daughters- 41 & 37. 1 GS,11yo GD & 9yo GD (DD40); Five grands ages 15 to 8. D-day #1-1/06; D-day #2-3/07 Reconciled! Construction Complete. Astra inclinant, sed non obligant
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