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Divorce/Separation :
How long has it been?

Topic is Sleeping.

 kiwilee (original poster member #10426) posted at 5:16 AM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

Curious how long your divorce process has been going on and what stage you are in?

This seems to take so long when you are mentally and emotionally done!

posts: 663   ·   registered: Apr. 17th, 2006
id 8802132

Helena67 ( member #80506) posted at 7:17 PM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

Mine is taking far too long. It started last februari and it isn't finished yet. Every time I think that the end is near and then it just isn't.....

BS (me) 56 years. Divorced!!!

posts: 129   ·   registered: Aug. 10th, 2022   ·   location: The Netherlands
id 8803303

crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 9:07 PM on Friday, August 4th, 2023

Mine began in March of this year and is still ongoing. We are in the Discovery process. I hope the end is near.

fBS/fWS(me):51 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:53 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(21) DS(18)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014

posts: 8834   ·   registered: Apr. 2nd, 2012   ·   location: California
id 8803319

Kanashii ( member #80132) posted at 3:59 AM on Saturday, August 5th, 2023

My year of separation was completed and papers signed for divorce in June of this year. I'm waiting for a judge to sign off on it to make the divorce official. Like Helena67 I thought it would be over sooner but the STBXWH signed an extension to give a response to divorcing instead of agreeing to it. Not sure how many times he can do that. Also waiting for him to give info on his wishes for mediation.

Either way I'm hopeful that it should be totally completed by end of the year.

Me - BW Mid 30'sHim - XWH Mid 30's

D-day1: Christmas Night 2021 D-day2:6/5/22

Filed for divorce 6/6/23. Divorce final 9/5/23

posts: 87   ·   registered: Mar. 23rd, 2022   ·   location: United States
id 8803359

leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 4:27 AM on Saturday, August 5th, 2023

I'm one of the lucky ones. I filed in mid-November and the D was final near the end of February.

Other members have gone years. There's really no set answer.

BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21

posts: 3573   ·   registered: Apr. 21st, 2018   ·   location: Washington State
id 8803361
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