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Dorothy123 (original poster member #53116) posted at 2:09 PM on Friday, March 10th, 2023
*Dorothy gets on a soap box and rails against people who claim to be friends of the BS*
Before DDay.
F*ck all the "friends" who know about the WS's A and didn't tell the BS because the "friends" wanted to protect the BS.
F*ck all the "friends" who allow the WS and AP to use the "friends" house for sex. F*ck all the "friends" who allow the WS to use the "friends" as a cover to cheat
F*ck all the "friends" who conspire and collude to keep the BS from knowing about the A.
Shortly after DDay
F*ck all the "friends" who blame the BS for the A.
F*ck all the "friends" who gossip about the A behind the BS's back
F*ck all the "friends" who thinks the BS is dumb for letting the A go as long as it did.
Further along after Dday
F*ck all the "friends" who tell the BS to "get over it" a week after Dday.
F*ck all the" friends" who think the BS is mean and vindictive if the BS divorces
F*ck all the "friends" who thinks the BS dumb for wanting to reconcile with the WS.
These people are not friends but are enemies !
F*ck them all.
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
WonderingGhost ( member #81060) posted at 6:16 PM on Friday, March 10th, 2023
I'm so sorry if these are things that have happened to you 
People really can be the worst. Recently, after my DDay 2, I'm realizing just how obvious it is that crappy people seem to attract each other like magnets. Friends and acquaintances of crappy, morally flawed people 9 times out of 10 are the exact same way in my experience.
[This message edited by WonderingGhost at 3:51 PM, Thursday, April 20th]
Dorothy123 (original poster member #53116) posted at 6:30 PM on Friday, March 10th, 2023
@wondering ghost, some of these things happened to me. Some didn't.
I was venting about the common BS experience.
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 6:46 PM on Friday, March 10th, 2023
And I'm going to add, if I may:
F*ck all who knew and did nothing for whatever dumb ass reason they told themselves.
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello–My name is Chaos–You f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
Dorothy123 (original poster member #53116) posted at 7:58 PM on Friday, March 10th, 2023
@chaos. All additions are welcomed 
"I’ll get you my pretty, and your little dog too!" Wicked Witch of the West.
1345Marine ( member #71646) posted at 3:21 AM on Saturday, March 11th, 2023
Amen, and fuck the WS's who refuse to drop those "friends" but still want to pretend like they want to R and beg you to R and make you feel like shit if you want to just leave.
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 3:39 AM on Saturday, March 11th, 2023
Really sorry if you too had these sorts of experiences.
"Friends and acquaintances of crappy, morally flawed people 9 times out of 10 are the exact same way in my experience."
I do think that people who align with each other attract.
Or if they do not align they exit stage left when they find out. Thus the friends of affair stick with the affairer...
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
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