what kind of fucking bullshit is this court system
I hear you and agree.
The family court system is atrocious.
I believe it’s just a case churning revenue scheme structured by attorneys and former-attorney-turned-politicians with the goal of making large salaries based on billable attorney fees, mediation fees, and court system fees.
My XWW, out of the blue, betrayed, backstabbed, lied and deceived me and our children - and I was forced to pay her attorney fees so that I could divorce her.
She, literally, did not have to pay a penny for the divorce - and she gets what is laughingly called "child support."
I am forced to work to earn money to give it to someone else who is equally educated as me and has the children around as much as me.
And, there is absolutely zero accountability for how she spends "child support" money.
I could have video of her taking "child support" money to a drug dealer and buying a big bag of cocaine every month with it and the family court would not give a shit.
I know for fact that my XWW does not spend the "child support" money on my children.
The money I am forced to earn and give to her goes toward supporting her all-important social life with what she attempts to call "friends."
She’s been sued by several banks for taking out credit lines, maxing out the credit, and not paying back a penny of it - and I am forced to give this person money under the deception that it is to be spent on the children.
It’s simply court-ordered extortion.
At the same time, she is supposed to pay 25% of all out-of-pocket health insurance costs - and she has not paid a penny of any of it in the well over eight years since the divorce was finalized.
We’re talking to the tune of several thousand dollars worth.
If I were to attempt to take her to court to recover it all, it would end up costing me more in attorney and court fees alone.
And all the while, I have to deal with her fucking phony contemptuous attitude towards me.
Believe me, I understand where you’re coming from.