HeartFullOfHoles ( Member #42874) posted at 3:37 PM on Tuesday, September 14th, 2021
I built a great life for us, shame she doesn’t want to be a part of it
When she finally realizes that there more to lose than to gain when you leave be prepared. She might be coming back and beg for you to come back.
Or because of pride they will double down with the marriage rewrite, because in their mind it certainly cannot be their fault their world has imploded. Never underestimate a cheaters ability to lie; including to themselves.
BH - Tried to R for too long, now happily divorced
D-Day 4/28-29/2012 (both 48 at the time)
Two adult daughters
Tigersrule77 ( Member #47339) posted at 3:42 PM on Tuesday, September 14th, 2021
You have to be vocal. Call out her lying and expose her.
- I agree with Launch. No point. Best to ignore.
Launch, I hope you have a good attorney. Sorry you haven't found a good therapist. Regardless of whether your "evidence" is circumstantial or not, your WW actions are clearly detrimental to your M. Any real therapist could see that.
I agree with others that you both seem to have accepted the D. I hope it goes quickly for you and she doesn't hold things up.
Keep focusing on yourself and your healing. There are good therapists out there, so I hope you can find one.