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Phoenix1 ( Moderator #38928) posted at 3:18 PM on Monday, July 19th, 2021

Fuckface McCheaterpants

Made me chuckle. Before I changed him to Zasshole he was Zippy McCheaterpants.

fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!

You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~

posts: 8992   ·   registered: Apr. 9th, 2013   ·   location: Land of Indifference
id 8676702
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ChewedMeUp ( member #8008) posted at 7:08 PM on Monday, July 19th, 2021

My ex is just under his name (in case my kids ever saw, though they're adults now), but his icon is Jim Carrey with the marker all over his face, from Liar Liar.

BS - 40
DivorcED, finally.
2 Kids

posts: 590   ·   registered: Aug. 26th, 2005   ·   location: Baltimore, MD
id 8676773
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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 8:32 PM on Monday, July 19th, 2021

And slight t/j: Congrats Nanners on reaching freedom from the ex! Time to celebrate!

Thanks! He just changed his phone number and actually sent me his new one (shocker, as he never sent me any of his numerous addresses over the years). It didn't even occur to me until this thread that, heck, do I even NEED it anymore? laugh

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

posts: 16493   ·   registered: May. 1st, 2006   ·   location: Somewhere
id 8676786
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countrydirt ( member #55758) posted at 10:02 PM on Monday, July 19th, 2021

I turned mine simply into her first initial. As soon as I get the house sold, I will drop her completely from contacts and never have anything to do her again.

3 sons (mostly grown)
Married 32 years. DDay1 - June 2016, DDay 2 - April 2017, Final DDay - May 2020. Divorced - January 2021

posts: 293   ·   registered: Oct. 25th, 2016   ·   location: Colorado
id 8676818
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thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 4:17 AM on Tuesday, July 20th, 2021

Another T/J:

He just changed his phone number and actually sent me his new one (shocker, as he never sent me any of his numerous addresses over the years). It didn't even occur to me until this thread that, heck, do I even NEED it anymore?

Haha! Probably feels safe now that he's off the hook for child support!

Shortly after the D was final, the (adult) kids talked me into getting a smartphone so we could play games together because my phone was about to be obsolete. I was required to get a new email for the new phone. We had no reason to stay in touch, so I didn't let him know, but he could, and did, still text. Then, another couple of months and there was a mobile contract issue that required a phone # change. Perfect! Now he didn't get that info either, so no more harassment from him!

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

posts: 4998   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2012   ·   location: the Other Side
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wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 4:05 PM on Tuesday, July 20th, 2021

Haha! Probably feels safe now that he's off the hook for child support!

Ha! The last time he paid CS was January 2009. I wish I was kidding.

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

That's the best. smile

Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

posts: 16493   ·   registered: May. 1st, 2006   ·   location: Somewhere
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thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 9:26 PM on Thursday, July 22nd, 2021

Sorry Nanners. Was hoping he had changed his ways... should know better.

Yes, this really is the BEST!!

Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

posts: 4998   ·   registered: Feb. 3rd, 2012   ·   location: the Other Side
id 8677579
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Hedwig ( member #74175) posted at 6:49 AM on Tuesday, August 17th, 2021

Blocked and deleted. Best decision ever.

Dday - 10/2018
Caught them, EMDR helped
Ended the relationship after false R for 1,5 years

posts: 261   ·   registered: Apr. 8th, 2020
id 8683895
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SuperDaddy1027 ( member #59344) posted at 1:44 PM on Wednesday, August 18th, 2021

My kids are still young so I have to keep XWW name and contact info. I did change her last name to her maiden name (and will change it to her new married name since she’s engaged). Her ringtone is crickets 😂. My kids see it when they call her on my phone. They never asked about it. Once my DD is 18 I will delete this contact. I see no need or desire to interact with this person anymore once I have adult kids.

[This message edited by SuperDaddy1027 at 7:45 AM, August 18th (Wednesday)]

posts: 854   ·   registered: Jun. 23rd, 2017   ·   location: NC
id 8684114
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