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 Myotherfish (original poster New Member #79126) posted at 5:45 PM on Thursday, July 15th, 2021

Ive watched the love of my life slowly convince hiself i'm not in love with him. I ve watched him force his self from me and slowly ruin what we've built. barely whole meeting him he was my other fish. insecurities i saw in him and understood and had patience with to understand had him throwing accusations, and petty actions. Now its led to snapchat messaging girls with the safety of disappearing ,messages and disrespectful groups on facebok for sneaky links and things i'll n ever be... i never had doubt i never thought hed go there i thought we were in love for real Now i just sit and cry on the inside remembering every word he said to me wanting other woman, not being wife material, just not being enough. wondering how it got here and when he stopped wanting tpo be with me.

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Cooley2here ( Member #62939) posted at 7:05 PM on Thursday, July 15th, 2021

I know you are writing this while you are in despair so some of what you wrote is hard to decipher. I think what you are saying is that your husband has turned into a monster and you don’t want to admit it. He’s conning you. It’s gaslighting 101. Let him go on about his life and you find a good one. He’s not worth it.

To thine own self be true. Shakespeare

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scaredwoman ( Member #78680) posted at 7:46 PM on Thursday, July 15th, 2021

You ARE enough and his desire to be with others is an open door for you to start a new life!

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Bonetired ( Member #78518) posted at 8:44 PM on Thursday, July 15th, 2021

Right now you are in a lot of pain. Many of us know that pain here. We have often drowned in it like you are doing right now. It must appear to you that the person you thought you loved disappeared and it's someone else in his body. How ever sad to say this was always him. The ability to hurt a person like he is hurting you right now was always something he possessed. When you are able to let us know your storyline.

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HalfTime2017 ( Member #64366) posted at 11:28 PM on Thursday, July 15th, 2021

He probably looped you in promising the future, its called "future faking". Guys do it, players do it. Then they get bored with you and do it to someone else, and blame you for it.

There were probably redflags you either missed, or chose to ignore. It got here b/c of those reasons. He didn't just overnight decide to open up a snapchat and start messaging girls.

Did your relationship start out this way too?

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