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Reconciliation :
Could use some encouragement, I screwed up


paboy ( member #59482) posted at 6:22 PM on Sunday, October 31st, 2021

Have you still got your head above water? Hope all is well.

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HUM1021 ( member #6222) posted at 2:41 AM on Tuesday, November 2nd, 2021

A famous statement in Economics: "There are no solutions: only trade-offs."

Everyone has to make their own path. What do you want? What will you trade for it? Can you live with the trade? Can you end up on the good side of the trade?

Me: BS 34
Her: WS 33
M 5 years
dday with 1st OM 4/30/04 EA/PA
dday with 2nd OM 12/11/04 EA/PA
on the reconciliation rollercoaster

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drumerboy ( new member #59097) posted at 2:58 AM on Friday, November 5th, 2021

It's been 4 years for me and movies like "Unfaithful" and Songs like "Follow Me" by Uncle Kracker still trigger me. My wife knows this and she knows that I have every right to be triggered. The fact that you are triggered means you are still working on stuff and that's a good sign because relationships are something that you never finish working on.

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Robert22205https ( member #65547) posted at 1:30 PM on Thursday, November 11th, 2021

Hey...are you ok?

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