Lack of emotional intelligence
Wife and I are currently in MC. Our therapists has stated my wife suffers from low emotional intelligence and that she may never be the person I need her to be emotionally. Therapist also stated that my wife’s low EQ played some role in her affair.
Anybody on here ever dealt this or even heard of it? I’m researching of course, but thought some of you could provide some experience as related to real life situations also.
25 comments posted: Saturday, February 12th, 2022
Knowing the truth
Been 16 years since my wife’s affair. We swept it under the rug for many years but here in the past 6 months it has came flooding back like hell. So many questions that I didn’t ask before. It’s driving me nuts. Wife either says she don’t remember or that we need to drop it and move forward. I agree, I want to move forward but I guess where we didn’t deal with it properly the first time this has hit me like it was yesterday. I went through about 3 months of depression which my doctor says is a form of ptsd? I honestly don’t know what to do. So my question is, how many have felt they didn’t get full disclosure and how have you dealt with it?
69 comments posted: Saturday, November 6th, 2021
This is for the waywards. How many have gave full disclosure to their spouse? Or did you tell them just enough? In the disclosure, did you lie about certain details either out of fear of hurting them or out of fear that the certain detail would be too much and dealbreaker and they would leave?
1 comment posted: Thursday, November 4th, 2021