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Yesterday was my old wedding anniversary

twicefooled posted 4/6/2021 08:19 AM

And I didn't even realize it until something on Facebook triggered the date for me.

In previous years I would spend the last week or so lamenting about the unfairness of it all.

Last year I realized it was The Day on the day.

This year it passed without mention or thought.

Seven years later things don't cut as deep as they used to <3

AnnieOakley posted 4/6/2021 12:40 PM

I completely understand Twice. My 30th would have been earlier in March. I knew it was coming up but forgot about the date until the day after. There have been previous years that I did not think about it at all, I guess a milestone put it on my mind.

There are times that I still feel sadness, but I know that is because we really had a good marriage...except for that one small detail. 🙄

Life goes on.This last year has been difficult so I think it feels more pronounced. Iím getting out of my CV19 shell one small step at a time. 😊

You sound like you are in a really good place, thatís wonderful!

BearlyBreathing posted 4/6/2021 19:13 PM

Yay! Nice progress!

[This message edited by BearlyBreathing at 7:13 PM, April 6th, 2021 (Tuesday)]

EvenKeel posted 4/7/2021 08:11 AM

Hey Twice...Yesterday was my old wedding anniversary too!

Isn't it great to be at a point were it is just like 'meh' when you realize the date!!!????

I am a little further out than you (11 years post D) - and it just gets better.

Raising my champagne glass to you (you know...if we had champagne and if I even drank )

Here is to better chapters!

Karmafan posted 4/7/2021 09:28 AM

Way to go Twicefooled! You have clearly crossed over to a much better and happier place. A place where infidelity no longer defines you. Here is to your new beginning and to many more happy posts

Westway posted 4/8/2021 08:36 AM


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